all this game playing.. who calls 1t how long should I leave it before calling.. is it just a girl thing or do men think about this toooo?
2006-11-25 06:56:51 · 18 answers · asked by ejx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To start don't come on too strong until you get to know each other better. After a while if you still feel like you have to play games he's not the one for you. My boyfriends calls me to tell me he misses me if I haven't been in touch for a few days and we never worry about who's turn it is. If we are thinking about each other we let the other person know and it very comfortable...but once i dated a guy who said i called him too much because i called him twice in one day. Thank god we split up and i met me current boyfriend!
2006-11-25 08:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by roisindu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rules are something teenagers stick to.When you are a bit more grown up you realize that it's best to throw the rules out the window. If you really enjoy being around the person , please let him/her know. It's much more important to be yourself and show your interest because lack of this may result into a disaster. Playing hard to get is a two way game where the odds are that you may lose the attention and interest of your partner. So change the rules to just 1. DO WHAT FEELS GOOD TO YOU!!
2006-11-25 15:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there IS a book called "The Rules" and it contains all the rules of dating. It is by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, and you can get it for about $7.00 at any bookstore. Every young girl should get one for their 16th birthday.
There are 35 rules and they WORK.
I won't list them all, or the techniques explained, but I'll give you two hints:
Rule #5: Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls
Rule #6: Always End Phonecalls First
Start with these two rules, and see what happens! It sounds strange, but it works!
2006-11-25 15:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with Tricia. "The Rules" by Fein and Schneider don't work.
Rule #5: Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls
Rule #6: Always End Phonecalls First
If a women tries this, most guys lose interest very quickly. At least I do.
2006-11-26 19:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wana contact them either by a phonecall or a text then what you waiting for??????? Do it now. Dont sit back waiting for them to contact you 1st because for all you know they could be thinking the same thing. If one of you doesnt make the move then it maybe a relationship that was ment to happen but never did coz neither of you had the currage to take that chance first.
Go for it....theres no rules
2006-11-25 16:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mystic Magic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ther rules are different depending on the people involved. It's one of the most confusing things we as human beings have to do!!
So don't worry about the "rules" and do what you want. If it works then the person is right for you, if it didn't work then it was the other person, not you!
2006-11-26 09:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by ErnieBert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the men I've known have thought about all these things :)
Luckily, I'm now dating a man who doesn't 'do' rules.
If he wants to text me 15 times a day he does :) And If I want to call him at 3am I do - its much more relaxed and easier when we don't worry about the rules or what other people think!
2006-11-25 14:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you just hate game playing...boys & girls? Why should anyone thing they have the exclusive right to call the shots!
2006-11-25 15:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by punkyboygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think playing games and "rules" are so dumb. Just treat the other person with respect.
2006-11-25 14:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya I agree with Jared I there are no rules, each one plays on there own
2006-11-25 14:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋