If you really thought you loved someone, saw yourself having a future with this guy (kids and all), but didn't have much relationship experience, didn't have many experiences being single, wanted to explore — do you really love the person? Could you hook up with other people, date, sleep with people and still love that person? How would you convince the guy that he was really the one for you AFTER you did these things?
2006-11-25 06:55:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there would be no way to convince him of this... Just because of her seeing other people doesn't mean that she didn't love you and maybe she thought it was the best way to get over you because she hurts... how do you deal with the pain of losing the closest one to your heart??? you do whatever you have to not to think about that person because it kills you every time you do....
2006-11-25 07:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see being curious if you hadn't had much experience with anyone else but personally i wouldn't do any of that if i saw a future wit the person I was wit. I do have friends that felt like that though. The only thing is, was that the guys felt the same way so they took a break and they're back together now. I think that if the girl was wit another guy and didn't feel anything then maybe the feelings she has for the guy she's wit are just proved to her. She realizes what she really wants.
2006-11-25 07:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love the person and still have these feelings. It's only natural.Now you shouldn't deny yourself of the experiences that a natural to go thew and if in the end it was meant to be that it will happen on its own. Never try to convince a person to be with you. Just like you, You should be with a partner because you want to, not because you need to.
2006-11-25 07:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were truly in love with someone i dont think you could hook up, date, and sleep with people etc. you wouldnt find the need to. and i dont think in the matters of love u need to convince anyone, things like that happen on their own for a reason. when the two people are ready. timing is everything i think.
2006-11-25 07:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean a lot of girls could deal with that but me personally couldnt all my boys i have dated were virgins and thats a good thing i never wanted a boy that was a virgin like me but i didnt want to take the risk of getting stds and i mean ya some girls will take that risk at getting stds from some one that has been a around a lot of times but i couldnt do it.
2006-11-25 07:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ,no you wouldn't wanna be with someone else and still be with him .that would just be wrong and discusting,that would mean you are going to cheat on him and you really want to have a good realationship???? no, then after you cant convince him....
2006-11-25 07:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY LIKE/LOVE HIM WHY BOTHER TO EXPLORE AND EXPERIENCE.IT'S HARD TO CONVINCE THE GUY IF YOUR THOUGHTS ARE LIKE THAT CAUSE ME I DON'T BUY THAT REASON. AND I DON'T THINK HE WILL .
2006-11-25 07:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would i wanna do those things after im in love with somone else. and i do already like like someone else. his name is matt and he likes me 2. he told me after i told him that i liked him.
2006-11-25 07:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by mojoe_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so.
2006-11-25 06:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋