Me and my ex have been together, on and off for 2 years now. I can say that a majority of our arguments were because I couldn't control my temper and because I've been so emotional. Now that things are said and done, and I've seen what I've done to bring this relationship to the ground, I can't help but feel regret and that I lost the best guy anyone could ask for. He won't answer my calls, return my texts or anything. What do I do now?
2006-11-25 06:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calm down and change your diet, no candy, no simple carbohydrates, and do exercises every day, then you'll be better off
:> peace
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2006-11-28 18:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
the obvious answer is to let go and move on but i can see that it isn't all that easy.
maybe he won't return anything you send him, but he listened to a few of your messages. i hope you weren't too agressive, or he might feel stalked or harassed and then you have no hope left at all.
if this guy doesn't want to get back with you, i wouldn't really blame him - he probably thinks that you would start up all over again.
write him a sincere letter, and promise to yourself that this is the last thing you're sending to him. this is your last chance.
tell him how you love him, how you're sorry, how you feel like he's the best thing that's ever happened to you... and most of all tell him how you wouldn't blame him for refusing to start dating again.
good luck girl - and if this doesn't work out, look for other guys.... this isn't the end of the world! and look at it this way: now you've learnt your lesson: you'll never treat another guy this way again.
2006-11-25 14:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by chocolate.smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is the time for self-examination not self-recrimination. In other words, rather than feel guilty about your part in the pain of the relationship, it's time for awareness of your thoughts and behaviors that have caused so much trauma.
You may have lost this guy, but you can gain yourself. Leave him alone and work on the person that you will spend the rest of your life with, yourself. As you grow and mature, you will find that there are many more wonderful people in the world.
Peace!
2006-11-25 14:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might of reached his breaking point with you. Maybe he needs time and he needs your true word that things will change. Or he may just say enough is enough. Your pain is horrible along with your guilt. But the best thing out of all of this is your insight on what went wrong. Learn from it and try not to make the same mistake again. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 14:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him cool off for a bit let him have some space. if you happen to see him say hi but if doesnt say hi back then he still needs some space but if he does say im sorry for what i did. And if we could still be freinds if he says yea freinds are good it will lead to you guys hanging out more and then maybe things will go as you hope but its better to have him as a freind rather an enemy.
2006-11-25 14:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a heartfelt letter, that's what I do, its like therapy. You will get to tell him how you feel and there will be no blow ups or hanging up on each other. That way also he can have his space. If it was truly meant to be then it will be!! Good luck to you.
2006-11-25 14:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're sorry! And don't just say it black and white - 'I'm sorry.' Give him a sincere apology. If he won't accept it, that's goign to be his loss. You can't fix the past, but you can fix the future!
2006-11-25 14:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Give him a couple of days to get his mind right.
2. Let him go.
2006-11-25 14:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by RiTA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the pain and don't repeat your mistakes in the future. Hope he will come back if you want to, but I wouldn't hold my breath.
2006-11-25 14:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to let go and move on
2006-11-25 14:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by Zoey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋