i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, and recently i made a huge mistake and cheated on him. i know i will never cheat again, because i just feel so terrible now. i dont want to tell my boyfriend about it. im scared i might lose him. but would telling him be the right thing to do?
2006-11-25 06:43:11 · 9 answers · asked by molly s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, I have seen it a lot: girl tells guy she cheated, guy cries, gets mad, and dumps her
If you are very guilty of it then tell him, but if your consiece is eating away at you, then tell him
i cannot be sure u will still have him if you tell him though
2006-11-25 06:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T tell him. He will probably never find out anyway. I would suggest that you tell him maybe a year or two from now, when it's safely in the past. Just tell yourself that you will tell him later and you aren't hiding anything from him and you may feel better. It's just really not the right time to tell him now that the issue is fresh yet.
2006-11-25 06:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably shouldnt tell him cause even if he forgives you he will most likely not have the same trust as he did for example my friend went out with a this guy for like 2 years and one time at a party hr bf and others were playing spin the bottle and he had to kiss this girl and he didnt even cheat on my friend it was just a game but till now there still together but she doesnt trust him as much
2006-11-25 06:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he will find out without you telling him, I would tell him just because it would be better to hear it from you than someone else. It could either make or break your relationship too. Just do what your heart says is right and maybe if you promis to never do it again or even prove that you will never do it again (through time) he might not break up with you.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 06:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by camm300 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him bout it. He deserves to know. If he really cares then he should listen to what you have to say. It's going to be hard for you to tell him, and even harder for him to listen. But you know that if you've been together that long that he deserves to know. Tell him it was a mistake, He'll prolly yell a little but you guys can work it out. Tell him that it's too much time to just throw away.
2006-11-25 06:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, it actually helps to keep the mouth shut.
Silence is golden, and this is one of the best times to observe that.
Good Luck........and don't ever cheat on ANYBODY again!
2006-11-25 06:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you know the answer to your question. You know you have to tell him because if you love him like you say then he deserves to know what you did and leave it to him to make the decision of staying with you or not.
2006-11-25 06:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, secrets always come out and when they do it's worse than ever. the more you wait the worse it will be. you might loose him but if you wait too long you might loose him and he will hate you
2006-11-25 06:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by that redheaded chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he don't know won't hurt him
don't tell him but don't do it again.
got it.
2006-11-25 06:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by ASHLI B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋