I can't really stop thinking about a guy, although I know that he's got very little to offer as a boyfriend as far as the whole package is concerned. Anyone else would just think 'I don't want to know you' but I just cannot stop thinking about him. Mornings, evenings, in between. Why?
2006-11-25 06:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because there's still mystery there....we'll always be attracted to the 'could have beens' in life. That's why it's hard to let people go, there's a chance people might change their minds, we need people to be clear and strong with us if there's no chance that anything can happen but most people are too 'nice' and they keep us guessing. When we like somebody the littlest thing they do is amusing to us, it's pretty cute.
The more out of the reach the better, usually. And I disagree that most people would think 'I don't want to know you', I think what you're going through is very common to the human condition. I'm kinda going through the same thing myself so don't feel bad.
2006-11-25 06:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obvisously like this guy for the person within him (his personality). Does this guy like you by any chance? If you want to take things further to the next stage then why not, just go for it.
Dont worry about what other people or your friends will say, if they are TRUE friends they will respect your choices and just support you. Its very hard to find a guy these days whose personality shines through the outta layer. Some guys are REALLY good looking but lack a personality or are just nasty people inside. NO DISRESPECT TO ANY MEN OUT THERE WHO READ THIS THERE ARE GOOD GUYS OUT THERE.
Also think about it in the long run.......if you WAS to have a relationship with this guy and he does feel the same way about you and the realtionship lasts remember LOOKS change with time but PERSONALITIES dont.
2006-11-25 16:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mystic Magic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is b/c u have some kind of affection 4 him but u dont want 2 show it b/c nobody really likes him so u dont want 2 show affection.
2006-11-25 14:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥SUMMERTIME♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if hes not perfet...who is? he's ovv making u crazy he's got u thinking about him day and night! he must be special if u think about him even wens hes not with u
give him a chance maybe he is a good bf
he must make u smile if he is in ur head all the time n that must make u feel good inside and thats all u need in a bf sum1 2 make u smile and feel good about urself
2006-11-25 14:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by chudyloveinj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers above are all right on. I just wanted to let you know that the better of us get caught up like this.
2006-11-25 14:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u like him but u know that u dont want to do nothing with him because he is not liked by others
2006-11-25 15:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with small B*ch, i think it's because you do like him, but it sounds like he's not very liked by others, and you maybe feel like people will dislike you for liking him...sorry i am confusing you now
2006-11-25 14:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its most likely love but dont worry im just like you i always think of this guy that i like and wut helps me forget is listening to music maybe you should find something that helps you forget for a while or you can try listening to musiv
2006-11-25 14:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋