I know that i may have posted alot of questions concernig my relationship, but that is because i like getting advice from other people. It always give me thoughts about how to handle my situations. So before i ask my question i would just like to say thank you to all those who take the time to listen, and always have advice, you are greatly appreciated.
My questions is i caught my boyfriend on the phone with another girl and the conversation that they where having seemed like he liked her and wanted to hang out with her, i thought it was really disrespectful for him to talk to a girl in my face. but he said he didn't have nothing to hide thats why he did it. I dont know if i should give him the boot or let it slide. He say that he dont have feelings for this girl and he just wants to be with me. But i just don't trust it i don't want to put my feelings into him and he gonna sneak around on me. What should i say? what should i do.
2006-11-25 06:41:52 · 4 answers · asked by shay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't put up with it. It sounds like your of the same mind. My man would eat a phone if he was with me talking to another girl.
2006-11-25 06:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Shay,
I think you've already answered your own question. This is not behavior that you're willing to tolerate and you're right to want to protect yourself from being hurt by him in the future.
The outstanding question (in my opinion) is whether you're correctly interpretting what you heard, since you only heard his side of the call. If you're okay with him having female friends, make sure he knows that. But you have to establish the boundaries and STICK WITH THEM. If either of you crosses the line, you do it with the knowledge that it could represent the end of the relationship.
Having said all this, how much do you know about his prior relationships? Have other gf's ended their relationships because he was stepping out? If so, you may just be the latest in a long line of 'nothing to hide' scenarios.
Good luck!
2006-11-25 06:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by princessmeltdown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he call her while you were there,because he wanted you to hear the conversation-now if you believe the explanation that he gave you than you are dumb,stop and think-he want his cake and be able to eat it to.if he disrespected you this time he will do it again.where there is no trust,there need not be a relationship-go on your merry way and find someone that will love you and not cheat-NO TRUST,NO FAITH,NO RELATIONSHIP, ONLY DISASTER
2006-11-25 06:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likely has no idea you experience that way. in simple terms tell him, and get it out of ways. i'm in simple terms assuming it really is why you mandatory to submit this, because you've not informed him. do not get your hopes up too a lot. in simple terms stay casual. i comprehend this is kind of redundant to even say it, yet in simple terms tell him and observe what occurs. with the help of ways, a shy guy likely gained't **** you over contained in the right. he's shy because he's been ****** over. do exactly it. you've were given the gasoline, spark it up.
2016-11-26 21:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋