ok so there's this girl named veronica she isn't exactly my friend i just talk 2 her cuz her cousin is really hott .....well me and her had a crush on the same guy but she got 2 him first becuz she knew him b4 i did so they went out...... everyone told him i liked him so one day he broke up with her ......so i started making my move so my friend comes from behind and says ey isnt that veronicas boyfriend i 'was mad becuz i told everyone they broke up so i said (loud) jorge broke up with veronica!!!! and my friend goes girl shut up veronica is rite there turns out she was rite next 2 me .....all of veronicaz friends were giving me dirty looks im not doing anything wrong rite?? they broke up im messing with him now, not when they were together!!!! some people r telling me its wrong some r telling me no its ok cuz they broke up there over soooo its ok if i get with him rite cuz me and her r not really friends!!! rite or wrong??
2006-11-25 06:31:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt kno she liked him till afta i found out they started going out and PPL ME AND HER ARENT REALLY FRIENDS WE JUST TALK 2 EACH OTHER!!!!
2006-11-25 06:38:21 · update #1
me and george arent dating were talking but were really close like him and veronica were b4 they started dating
2006-11-25 06:45:02 · update #2
hey girl theres nuthin wrong w/ it! if they brok up is ther loss! its not like u made them break up! they did it themselves! if i were u i wouldnt let this girl git 2 ya! shes just jealous of u! u guys arnt friends so who gives a D***!? lol. hes available go after him!! good luck!
2006-11-25 06:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by -adri; Your my wonderwallll. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, from what you said, you sound like pretty cruel to her. Granted they broke up. but as a guy we have a certain generally accepted rule that if a friend of yours breaks up with a girl, she's off the market to friends for a minimum of a month, that way everything's been worked out, and they've had ample time to get back together.
Now I'm not sure how it works with girls, but it seems like you snapped him up the moment you got the chance. But I suppose if you don't even care about what Veronica thinks, go right ahead, but be warned that she might start spreading word around that you're a boyfriend-snatcher, even if he wasn't actually her boyfriend at the time.
Boils down to: If you don't care, go for it; but be careful of her & her friends.
2006-11-25 06:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, its not wrong, because Veronica and Jorge broke up, but, you should not have immediately gone out with him, because maybe Veronica needs some time to think. She will probobly accuse you of stealing her boyfriend now, so I suggest, if he is not the one, then you should get rid of him. Politely. There will be other guys and only one is your true love.
2006-11-25 06:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by aarlover13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really cared about Veronica you would never have done that. You were not her friend when you tried to take her boyfriend. If this boy is so hot that you want him no matter what he does this to her what do you think he will do to your heart. he is a dog for doing what he did and you are no better. you deserve what you got. you need to figure out what you want out of life and what kind of person you want to be. you need to get morals and live by them.
2006-11-25 06:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always tricky when going out with your friends ex. When doing something like that it, if you don't want to piss your friends off you should ask Veronica if she minds if you go out with her ex. At least that way it's upfront and not a rumor. You need to do damage control first and then make your move.
2006-11-25 06:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your right. I've been around a long time and have dated a lot and been marred 4 times. When a person is unattached, not going with any one or marred it is open range. So your right if you wont to go with this guy. Like old saying finders keepers. loosers weepers. If you should fine he is not what your looking for, move on to greener pastures.
2006-11-25 06:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wrong because you were'nt messing with him while the two of them were still together right? at least you waited till they broke upto make your move and if you and veronica wern't friends then she cant be mad at you. But if you two were good friends then that would be so wrong, you never date you friends ex.
2006-11-25 06:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,as long as u did go after him,AFTER they broke up i guess u should be fine.
But, make sure you don't do anything IN FRONT of this Veronica, because its gonna hurt her like hell!
2006-11-25 06:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, now try to talk with her and tell her that you always be interested in that guy and you wait till they broke to be involved with him.
2006-11-25 06:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's right in a wrong type of way, cuz he is single, but you shoulda gave your friend some time to think about it, just in case she wanted to get back with him.
2006-11-25 06:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋