or in other words, i had a bf i dated for 2 years but on the first day of school he died. he died by being dragged by his horse. so how do i handle it do i forget him or never date anyone else ????
p.s i loved him so much and i still do and it has been a year since he had died
2006-11-25 06:30:35 · 16 answers · asked by Go ASI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel. My first fiance was murdered in 1993. We had been dating since 1991.
You never really get over something like this.
It's hard, but you just have to pick yourself up and move on. He would have wanted you to move on and find someone else. Mine told me to do that before he was murdered. I'm sure your bf would have felt the same way. You don't have to find someone else until you're ready.
I will always love my first fiance and will never forget him. You'll always treasure your bf, but you cannot sit at home and not live.
2006-11-25 06:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you never get over it. It was a precious relationship and you should cherish it forever. That doesnt mean never see anyone else. In time, you will be ready to share your heart with someone else. But please do take your time. Maybe see a counselor. Let your heart heal. And know that it is totally ok to love again, and to keep this love in your heart forever.
I am SO sorry you had to go through this.
2006-11-25 06:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Nolie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o hunny i am so sorry only time can tell im sure he would want u to be happy an he is watchin over u... god only gives u want u can handle.. this will only make u stronger in the end baby girl i feel for u... my bestfriends sister was married for 3 years she is 23 an her husband jus passed away 8 months ago its been so hard for her she isnt even thinkin about dating yet but one day im sure she will be ok again jus like one day only u will no when that is im sure u will be ok again to good luck n god bless
2006-11-25 06:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time.
Get involved in other activities, join clubs.
Respect the fact you had something special and understand that he would never want you to live in misery.
You will find love again, give it time.
Don't go out with the first guy you meet. Patience. Give yourself time to heal.
2006-11-25 06:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend would have wanted you to move on he loved you when you two were together but he would not want you to feel alone and sad forever so just know that he is in a better place and he will always live in your heart and memories but he would have wanted you to find peace too HUGS
2006-11-25 06:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wont get over him. You will move on. When you are ready to date or the right person comes along you will know. You are protecting yourself from further pain and that is normal. you might want to talk to a grief councilor.
2006-11-25 06:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds...
The best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love.
You will never forget him but the pain will dull with time...
2006-11-25 06:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget him, and you will always love him, but you will date others. When it feels right, you will be able to date.
2006-11-25 06:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant forget something like that u have to try and live with it but dont close your self up in a dark hole because of it and dont blam eyour self its not your fault thats life tragic things happen but it will be ok if u just try
2006-11-25 06:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by kaschara200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:( that's horrible. there's really nothing you can do except wait it out. try to surround yourself with happy people and happy music etc. time heals most wounds. stay strong and good luck.
2006-11-25 06:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by mica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋