i like one of my friends alot
shes kinda close but were not like best of friends
she has a b/f and likes him ALOT
she talk and laughs with him
but with me she only likes to have a laugh
whenever she cries she shuts me out but to ppl hu rnt evn that close to her she tells them everything.
i do so much for her and she never has said thank you to me.
whenever she goes on holiday she will hug everyone except me
she would give me a lousy hand shake.
whenever shes on MSN she never says hi to im the 1 who always starts off then we'll start joking around.
nowadays i have started to love her
is this right?
shall i stop being in contact with her?
plz need serious answers
2006-11-25 06:27:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is not good enough for you please find a girl that will return the affections !!
2006-11-25 06:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say back away. It's not worth it if she's already involved with someone else. Whether there is something there or not you need to back off for your own sake.
If she's treating you like that then she may already have picked up on your feelings and be trying to gently tell you to back off.
If she does like you she'll miss you when you aren't there all the time and she'll start initiating contact.
One more thing, never do anything expecting to be thanked for it. If you get a thank you that's great but they'll be few and far between especially if she's become accustomed to you doing things for her. All that will happen is that you'll get more and more angry with her and she won't know why.
2006-11-25 06:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows you like her and she's trying not to encourage you. Well, for now at least.
You don't want to carry on being the lovesick puppy, so you might as well just be honest with her (tell her how you feel) and then cut yourself off from her (tell her why you're cutting yourself off from her). Explain it before you do it. She will either nod sadly and let you go, or she will try to convince you otherwise. But at least you'll survive with your pride and sanity intact.
And, considering that knowing someone fancies you makes them more fanciable themselves, she might just call you some day.
2006-11-25 06:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two are just friends, like you said: "shes kinda close but were not like best of friends".
2006-11-25 06:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by KKL2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her and yourself space she will realise that your not paying as much attention to her and she will pay attention to you in time she knows your always there so she doesn't appreciate you
2006-11-25 06:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a maneater. same thing happend to me. it sux but i got over it.... i say kick her to the curb
2006-11-25 06:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by that redheaded chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should actually do what shes doing to you and when she asks why you're doing it, tell her what she's done is mean.
2006-11-25 06:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up
get another friend who appreciates you
2006-11-25 06:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by mannit m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just friends-cud change someday!
2006-11-25 06:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by sircrazydude90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋