After the honeymoon...?

Question

How long was your honeymoon phase? True or not, all the real problems...the differences and the arguing and the trying to get situated is by far the hardest part of the relationship. I never knew it was so hard.

For the record, my honeymoon phase is over...but I've only had high school relationship where it was all infatuation. My relationship is great...I talk to him every day for hours at end. But I never understood how hard maintaining and keeping things fresh and new can be. I now understand that keeping and maintaining a good relationship with the person you love...it takes work, but you have to want to want it to...

Answer 1

My honey moon phase lasted I guess about 2 years, but now don't get me wrong their are arguments, and problems that come up but you and him need to talk things out qently and both understand that both can have an oppinion, and neither of you have to be wrong. You bother need to come to an agreement. The honey moon phase should still be that part that he suprises you with silly litte things and you as well do silly things. Create enjoyable momens that only you too will share.

Answer 2

well mine goes in phases sometimes the other important things in life put stress on a marriage just hang in there and wait until you have that second honeymoon phase or third they are even better than the first

Answer 3

Mine lasted until the first baby came.

Answer 4

It was a shock to me too. My ex changed so much after we married I couldnt belive he was the same man I had fallen in love with....;

Answer 5

My ex hubsand was mean to me the day we came home and for 4 miserable yrs I stayed ! so good luck my friend !

Answer 6

I don't know?!