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Question

Why do most of the ladies that I run into seem to be more attracted to married men than single men. I mean I hear all the time how the ladies can't find any good guys, but when they do, they'd rather chase after the ones that are married and leave the single ones alone. What happened to old fashion values in this world. Is this what it has come to, that you have to be spoken for to have women be interested in you.

I'm not implying that all ladies do this, but the majority that I have met recently seem to be more interested in married men than single men. Didn't mean to offend the good ladies out there that still value a good guy.

Answer 1

Unfortunately I think that married men dont require as much effort. When dating a married man its mostly play time. Single people are usually looking for a long term thing and require more time and energy and many people dont want to give that to a relationship. Same reason for most divorces, people dont give enough time and energy. I have been divorced so I speak from experience. Concentrate on looking for someone that is looking for what you want. I was in the dating scene recently for 2 years. It can be fun, but very up and down. Good Luck, she is out there, just got to weed through all the wrongs to find your future.

Answer 2

From what I understand and you are not the only one who has this question I know many men who do.... Married men are less maintenance than a single men. Meaning........ dealing with a married man a woman doesn't has to put up with as much with all his extra issues as his wife does. Married men seeking extra marital affairs are normally only looking for a woman to give them a good time and fill a void that they are missing from their home life. Some women just want that. With their own lives and careers going they feel that they don't have the time for lack of a better word cater to a single man. The married man will cater to them. And at the end of the day they can go about their lives as business as usual. Some do it for gifts and things like that. Whether that is right on a morale level... No not in my opinion but there are some women out there who just want a traditional relationship..... Just gotta look a little harder now a days...

Answer 3

Wear a wedding ring then you can pull, my husband who's 25 says that all the time. A woman he worked with in his last job always said she preferred married men, she was 30 and single it was a case of i want what i can't have and its fun to try and get it. Some men are like it as well, its all about the challenge to see can you crack it. Then if they do, they don't believe in marriage because they conclude all men are cheats if they manage to sleep with a few married man.

Answer 4

Going after a married man is considered "safe dating" there is no commitment, but women get more attached ,in my opinion, and eventually need more. Women are afraid to open up and give of themselves fully because they have been hurt in the past. Men with wives can't give themselves fully, they can only give part time love and promises. It empowers a women in a sick way. Keep your head up, if you want a good woman be thankful these kind of women aren't attracted to you.

Answer 5

I believe it all stems from the fact that women love men who can commit. If you are a single woman looking for a relationship, you don't want to have to experience some guys inability to stay loyal. If you see a guy who can stay true to one woman, you want that kind of man so you pursue him. It's kinda hypocritical but it happens. Most women who do this are more than likely extremely insecure in their abilities to find their own man. Who knows

Answer 6

I think part of it is that whole "you want what you can't have" idea. Plus, married men already are in a committed relationship so women know they've found a guy who will settle down and love them...or at least someone, which is kind of backwards that they want the kind of guy who will leave someone they love for a new love.
I'm not that kind of person though, so I couldn't really tell you for sure.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I didn't know that it was a prerequisite to finding a good man. Their are a lot of good single men out there too my friend. If a woman is dating a married man, that tells me something is wrong either with the marriage or the man. hmmm.

Answer 9

Well That is because all the cut men are taken and married so that realy leaves ugly men out in the world

Answer 10

speaking personally the attraction of a married man is that he is unavailable. and maybe women that like married men dont want the commitment and hassle that comes with relationships.