Ok, my really cute neighbor is at it again. he has a gf, but he still flirts with me. I like haim a lot, (maybe even love him), but I know I shouldn't. When I'm around him, I'm so happy, but I know I shouldn't be. I don't get it. He flirts with me all the time, but when people ask him if he likes me, he says no. but one time when he was on the phone with one of his friends, he said he would ask me out if he didn't have a gf. Did he say that cause he meant it, or did he say it just to say it? I am soooo confused. my questions are: why is he flirting with me? Does he like me? How can I make him more interested in me? And has anyone been in a situation like this?
2006-11-25 06:07:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be open w/ him and ask him those same questions see what he has to say
2006-11-25 06:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's flirting with you because he likes the control. He likes knowing that he has you wrapped around your finger. He is tricking you into falling for him, and you're doing exactly what he wants you to do. If you're really interested in this boy, be friends with him. Ignore his flirting gestures, and don't let them go to your head. Once he sees what a great friend/girl you are, he might realize that he actually does have feelings for you, and things will go as planned.
2006-11-25 14:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister`s in the same situtation. He probablly likes you a lot, but if you are friends, he might not want to jepardize the friendship. He flirts with you because he doesn`t like you; he`s probablly going out with this other girl to keep his mind off of you. I`m not really sure how you can make him more interested; I think he doesn`t want to be interested.
2006-11-25 14:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys think they have a gift to women's self esteem by flirting with them. don't fall for it. He has a girl friend.
2006-11-25 14:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does like you and if he does you need to take a chance and put your self out there to see what happens.
2006-11-25 14:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Brad A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away the source of his attraction reveals that if he is attracted to you and has a gf then he won;t be committed to you!
2006-11-25 14:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he loves u or maybe because he wants to see if he can make u love him and add u at his collection of girls.
2006-11-25 14:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋