okay, i guess its nornal, tough i am really not sure.
I had got out of a relationship sometime back - abt 4 months back, and i seem to still be in love with him. I am not sure but, i do think abt him all the time, and dream abt him often. This is not like me, but its happenin......
He belongs to someone else, he moved in with his ex girlfriend, there is 0 CHANCE of anything happenin with us, i must let this whole thought go......... i seem to only think of him,,,
I am trying to move on, but i seem to be cauht in a web of false pretence: to the outside world, i look like i am compleatly at peace, and happy with the way everything is. However this is not the case, I just am not..... A friend told me to stop hiding it, i mean everyone has a opinion of me thats false, and i dont know what to do, howvere i am not that strong, i am extreamly vunurable, esp right now. Ive tried to to get interested in other guys, but everytime i do i seem to just not be into them when they ask me out
2006-11-25 06:00:52 · 6 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ONCE he told me abt his ex after our break up, before she moved in we did get back together, then again, we broke up cause of her moing in.,.... its just a whole lot of emotions riht now.....
after that i did do all this
blog, cry for a week or a month, then take a vacation, catch up with some old friends..
i dont know how to say it.... i mean, i dont know what to do now.... its all there, the love the pain, and all the in betweens
need to know what to do, i need help and advice, cause i am so caught up in this web, i dont know where its at from here on
do u jknow what i mean??
plz advice, i am in dire need for some serious advice or help
thanks
2006-11-25 06:01:04 · update #1
Please listen to me. This dude is gone; you are lucky that he is. You are likely a loving a sweet girl. You will never be able to forget him or what happened to you. MOVE ON and use this pain to motivate yourself; find some fun, some other friends, stop complaining and thinkabout your future.
It is difficult but the kind of guy you want is not this one. You want to come home to someone who adores you and thinks only of you like you do him. He is out there, and you will find him.
How to find him? DO NOT LOOK, just be yourself and a friend will become something more. Do not be anxious.
When pain crosses your mind, think about something else, distract yourself; look toward the future. Sweet one, life is just starting for you, and this pain is part of it. Fight it and do not give in to it.
2006-11-25 06:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go. I know it's hard, because he was obviously a very important staple in your life. He is probably one of the people you love the most. But you've already answered your own question. You've said there is a 0% chance for you and him. You know it won't work, and it does you no good to pine after a boy that you just can't have. By pining after him, you're not only hurting yourself, but you're probably hurting him as well. Busy your time with other things, to keep your mind off of him; dwelling on the situation is no help at all. Surround yourself with good friends and have fun. Try not to think of good times with him, as that will only make things worse. Go out with other guys- it may not be the same, but it will distract you for the time being. You may find that if you actually give a guy a chance, you'll become interested in him. Think of all the good things that happen in your day, no matter how small and insignificant. Just remember that you have to keep on living, and let bygones be bygones.
2006-11-25 14:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know what you need to do...move on.
Yes, it will hurt..but not as much as wanting something you can never have. Even if he did come back, it would be because things are going well with the other woman. You deserve better.
2006-11-25 14:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on and date other people. The world is a very big place and there are plenty of people out there. However, you have to make yourself available to meet them.
2006-11-25 14:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by romeo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, you only want him because he is with someone else, this feeling happens all the time after a breakup. When you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, then they have chosen you and if they never return, then they really met it that didn't want to be with you. Your blocking your blessings, there is more than one love for us all.
2006-11-25 14:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by spitfire7611 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to find his bad parts and u will easily forget him.try to find dirty secrets about him and u'll forget
2006-11-25 14:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋