I am a freshmen guy in college. I just got in, and it's my first quarter and all. One day I met a senior in some meeting. We got close fast and now we regularly talk and eat together.
I had to stay at the dorm during Thanksgiving cuz of some family issues, and she had to stay at her apartment because she had to work. So I was invited to a small party and asked her to come with me. She moved her work shift to the next day and came. She looked so tired and weary, really burnt out by life. She is a senior graduating this year, and she earns her own tuition and rent. She works 35+ hours a week and takes four classes a quarter nd sleeps less than 5 hours daily. was real glad she came and we talked a lot about life and stuff. She thinks her life is too hectic and busy for a relationship. She considers love to be a luxury, and really has enough things to stress about. I really like her a lot. I can't stop thinking about her.. but she doesnt have 'time' to think about me. Is this impossible?
2006-11-25 05:55:33 · 5 answers · asked by EWman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that this is impossible. If you really care for the girl, show her. Bring her dinner at work, or lunch. Don't try to spend all of her spare time with her; she might just need a break from everything. Be there when she needs to talk, and help her with little things, to loosen up the load. If you honestly believe you may love this girl, wait for her. Continue to be a kind and loving friend, and wait until she doesn't have so many stressers in her life. If you stick by her in this difficult time, you'll find that things may just go your way. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 05:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds at least temporarily impossible. You've let her know you're interested, thats all you can do. Be available if she wants to see you, but for your own sake move on and find someone you can actually be with.
2006-11-25 13:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably more like "raging hormones" than a love. Just give her space and be a friend. It will all work out if it's mean to.
2006-11-25 13:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not at all...you know just how crazy her life is right now...maybe hold off on a relationship but you still can grab a front room sit until things in her life slow down...
2006-11-25 14:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by starjessiegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings.. you never know what may become of it..
2006-11-25 14:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋