My Brother was murdered, i was attacked by the man next door for reporting them to the ASBO Team. My thre childrem with autisum witnessed the attack. My children and i are suffering post traumatic stress. The man was had the chaarges dropped against him as he was deemed medicaly unfit to stand trial. And i have Lost my grandfather. My mother has been diaganoside with COPD. I feel that my whole world is crumbling around me.
2006-11-25 05:47:08 · 14 answers · asked by allyn 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
do it ever end.
2006-11-28 02:04:49 · update #1
I'm sure it will get better. We all go through rough spells in our lives. Why don't you pray?
2006-11-25 05:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear of all your pain. In truth there is no such thing as luck. Good or bad..things just "happen". However what makes the difference is how we respond to the circumstances. There are MANY people that go through trama such as you have descibed & there are people that have been through even more devestation than your own...personally I know of only One solution that holds the torn heart together...& that is Jesus Christ. He knows our pain, & He will be with us through every terrible step that we must endure. This sin filled world is NOT that way that He wants it to be, nor has it ever been the desire of His heart. We are the ones that freely choose to sin & therefore we create the devestation of our world. But there is hope!! Read the Bible! Draw near to the Lord God & see for yourself...you shall see Him as you seek Him with all your heart & mind & soul!
Things in this life may get better or they may not...but with Jesus along side we CAN & DO endure until the time that He will make all things New & good & right!
He is the true source of Joy & hope for all humanity.
2006-11-25 14:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by maranatha132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say you make your own luck... What you have been through is unbelievable...
I'm sure with a positive attitude things will change... Truth is nothing has 'conspired' against you. You're just going through a tough time... Try viewing each 'situation' one by one instead of seeing it as your whole world is wrong...
I can type this answer easily... Although the toughest part is your end!!!
I wish you and your family good fortunes to lift the clouds of despair
2006-11-25 13:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And? Is that all that has happened too you? Do you still have a home? Are your children still alive? Are you still breathing? Did you wake up this morning? You see many people no longer have these things, because of persecution, so instead of feeling sorry for your self, PRAISE GOD that you are still alive to praise Him. Be happy that God has given you all of these things, and think Him, and Praise Him. Innumerate every thing that God has Given to you and that He has Done for you, and you will begin to feel better about your life and you children will also begin to feel better, They take their cue from you as to how they should act and feel about things, so be the adult here, and not the child, stand up right how, no matter how silly it may seem and shout aloud, "PRAISE THE LORD GOD, FOR HE RULETH FROM THE THRONE OF HEAVEN" and my God bless you for you perseverance.
2006-11-25 14:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PRAY.
In your prayers, thank the Lord for your life. Pray for the man that attacked you. Pray for your mother.
Just when it looks like there is no hope, God comes through to show you how powerful he is and how much he loves you.
Just ask that his will be done in your life and thank him for all you have, even if its not a lot and in the midst of these problems.
I am sorry to hear of all your difficulty, I will pray for you too.
God Bless
2006-11-25 13:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And so your world is indeed doing. I am painfully sorry for both the agony and your suffering through them.
You can turn the corner by asking yourself, where is your strength. What has/will keep you going. Concenttrate, cling, call forth that and draw ever closer and you grow ever stronger.
For me, that is Jesus.
2006-11-25 13:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers you seek can be found in what you call, "bad luck", that kinda thinking just goes around and around. Look with-in this bad luck, find new understanding. The world constantly changes and so must our thinking.
2006-11-25 14:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by guidedlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later it will stop and you will be more blessed by it. check out Job if you want some comfort and see what he lost as you have. He got more than he started with many times over so keep your chin up. It will get better.
2006-11-25 13:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by ramall1to 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is all happening so that you would be broken and humbled, so that you can accept Jesus into your life, and He will make you into a new person. I'm not saying all that's happened to you is a good thing; I'm really sorry that this had to happen to you. But...Jesus still loves you, and He's there waiting to take you into His arms.
2006-11-25 13:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Forget My Name. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do feel for you-you have had some very painful experiences. If you need to talk or there is anything I can do to help please email me.I live in Manchester.In the meantime if you have a faith in God then it would help if you prayed to your Father. And if you don't have any faith please try prayer anyway because God will answer your prayers.I guarantee it.You are his daughter and He loves you.God bless you.
2006-11-29 13:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow love to you and your family ...
but please dont think of this as bad luck ... things happen sadly to many people and there are ups and downs .... some people have more downs than ups at times though ... and you and your family seem to be getting hit with a serious down at the moment
but things will change
they may never always be up .... but there will be some ups
and lets face it sweetie , i dont think you will ever be so low again
stay possitive ... start to think ahead of a good life and better things coming to you
and please please make sure you and your kids get help to come through all of this
bless you all xxx
2006-11-25 13:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by Peace 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋