I like this guy in my class an he keeps saying that i deserve better and i don't know what to say HELP plz?!?
2006-11-25 05:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah, the guilt trip. This is used by guys or girls who cannot get all that good of a relationship. They try and make the other person feel sorry for them, and in doing so, making them think that they need to help them. So in this, it creates a false emotional connection, which is a relationship.
Don't fall for his desperation of trying to make you feel sorry for him. Guys that do that are just too lazy/not good enough to try to actually get to know a girl and then build up from friendship. Fortunately for you, you are now warned about this and can avoid being tricked into a tangle of emotional fiction.
I may only be 16, but I have a strangely large amount of knowledge for these things. If you need any other help with relationships or anything, just email me at jakeb1041990@yahoo.com
2006-11-25 05:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a friend of yours or you know him fairly well take his advice and dont get involved with him. He thinks you are a good girl and doesnt want to corrupt you with what he does. I have been in this situation before and because i didnt take his advice i almost got rapped by one of his friends. You really need to realize that he knows himself and his life better than you do and that he is just looking out for you
2006-11-25 13:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even more obviously is that he doesn't like you as much as you want him too, so to brush you off he says you deserve better and you probaly do
2006-11-25 13:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by geo3598 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that then just pass on by and keep going ....
2006-11-25 13:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to let you decide what you deserve.
2006-11-25 13:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youi have a boyfriend it means he wants to get with you, if you dont have a boyfriend it means that he thinks hes nobody and he thinks hes not good enught for you
2006-11-25 13:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by july3910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are conceited and so I have to assume he's not interested.
2006-11-25 14:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's not interested in you and doesn't want to say it.
2006-11-25 13:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he does not have a hign opinion of himself
2006-11-25 13:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's not for you than, or he is playing for sympathy sex, thinking that you might feel sorry for him, etc.
2006-11-25 13:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by Yellow Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋