Love story..GUy hELp..does he like me??? im so depressed..?

Question

There is this guy that i had been hanging around with..we hung out for about 1 n a half months..jus roaming here n there, messing around, gettin sexualy involved..then he moved to another state..i started to realy like this guy, but he is a detach noncommitment type(as he says)..but 4 thanksgiving he came all the way from new york to c me n jus spend time w/ me...altho i dont know if he came jus 4 the sexual stuff..or DOes he realy like me? wen he was here..we had sex, but we also hung out..went to movies..went to beach n kissed there..went to restaurants..n the whole night i stayed with him in the motel n he wud take me in his arms n kiss me and all that..and we also made jokes n lafed..ALl i wanna know IS..DOES THIS GUY LIKE ME? AND HAVE ANY SORT OF AFFECTION/LOVE FOR ME? OR IS HE JUST HERE TO PASS HIS TIME..? i knw once he goes back to his state he will try to holler at other girls and that is really realy making me depresesd bcoz i like him

But i cannot tell him to stop flirting wit other girls bcoz we r not committed..BUT if he does not want to get committed and does not Like me then why is he doing all this..kissing me, spending time with me..coming in my arms..?? SO what Do u guys THink? DOES HE Like me?? what shud i do about his flirting..how should i
BTW- He came al the way from NY to Texas to c me n spend time and He has many friends here in Texas, but he didnt even meet Any one of them..spent the whole 2 days roaming around with me. He doesn’t even have family here...WHat DO U GUYS THINK>>DOES HE HAVE SOME FEELINGS FOR ME?? and also..how shud i handle the fact that he is a flirty type with others..its really KIlling me that he does that..how can i just forget him..

Answer 1

i think he just using you for sex he is a jerk you deserve somebody better

Answer 2

This is what happens when you give up the goodies to someone thats not 100% yours. Stop sleeping with him. If he really cares about you and wants to be with you, he will. Honestly, though, you are probably someone that he passes his time with when he's in ny. Stopping thinking with what's between your legs and use your damn brain. The sooner you do, the better off you will be.

Answer 3

dont, maybe he needs to be a reli close friend, this may sound stupid but a friend with privalages. If he came all the way down to see u, then it isnt just for sex, he can get that with other girls, it must be U that he wants to return to, i would feel honered if this happened to me, keep hold of him,as even a friend with privalages or mayb just a great friend
xxx

Answer 4

ask him out if he doesnt like u he'll say no if he does he''l say yes

Answer 5

ask him