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and they love you but things arnt the same as they were before and you fight alot but you still care for eachother and you dont want to break up

2006-11-25 05:15:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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you need to do one of two things, or both:
1. figure out why you are fighting so much.... and then tackle the problem(s) together as a couple.
2. find other ways of dealing with your anger which start your fights (probably little things right...)

My husband and i had that problem and we found that part of our problem was we were spending too much time together and we would wear on eachothers nerves (the same as your best friend did when you were 5 and she sleptover for a week in the summer... by the end of the week you "hated eachother" and a day later you were best friends again) may i also suggest counciling.. it may help do the things i said and also give you more ideas on what to do to make it work.

The most important thing i can tell you is to remember (both of you) that you love each other and things weren't always bad, and don't have to always be this way.

2006-11-25 05:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0 0

well what are you guys fighting about? ive been with my bf for 2 years and we used to fight alot (more like argue) about small things that didnt really matter. a few months ago i realized i have gotten better and we hardly ever fight. i learned to pick my battles and just ask, "is arguign abotu this really worth it, is anythign goign to change as a result of this arguement" if its no. then you can always just let him know how you feel and then stop. thats what i do. i get my point scross, say it once. (no need to repeat the same th ings over and over again) so maybe you two s houdl work on picking your battles, if its really worth it. fighting and arguing is never fun though! it really depends on the two of you. you shoudl sit down and talk and ask eachother wheree you see the relationship going. will it get better? worse? going to be married? not? moving in togehter? what you guys see eachother as in the future. but if both of you are miserable from fighting with eachother all the time then call it quits and take a break then try to get back together sometimes. just sit down and have a talk with him though, both of you. and see whre you guys think the relationship is going.

hope all works out for you guys!


pick your battles~ dont fret over the small stuff!~

good luck =)


how often do you guys fight? once a day? a week? i used to fight once or twice a feed at least. but now it has been a while.

instead of fighting you should talk to eachother clamly abotu your problems. screaming and swearing and stuff at eachother will not solve anything it will only make things more heated.

2006-11-25 05:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-12-13 14:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

i say that... this is a part in your realationship where you 2 have been together for a long time and getting sick of each other. you 2 still love each other but had enough. i say talk to him and say you love him. talk about what is going on in your realtionship. and i say you and him take a long relaxing vacation until it works out. dont loose the person you love..

good luck :)

2006-11-25 05:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by lovestruck27days27nights 2 · 0 0

your best solution to this problem is sitting down with him and talking about ya problems bring up that the arguments need to stop because if ya are willing and wanting to be with eachother ya can work things out...
GOOD LUCK...

2006-11-25 05:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0 0

you dont break up. DUH. nothing ever stays the same way that it used to be what are you retarded? eeryone fights with their spouse a lot its no reason to leave them.

2006-11-25 05:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You work it out. What else would you do?

2006-11-25 05:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

make it work!

2006-11-25 05:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by jija 2 · 0 0

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