however, I make my living as a plus size model. (The kind you see on the funny cards) My user pick is one of my modeling photos. I am very comfortable in my body and have no problem getting men. My friends call my admirers chubby-chasers but I think there is more to love. Should I lose weight to keep him?
2006-11-25 05:10:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've seen that pic on other ID's which means youre full of it. But thanks for the 2 points.
2006-11-25 05:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay well I am not saying your not the girl in that pic but I am gonna doubt it but you should NEVER change cuz of a guy. If he dont like you the way you are then F*** him. His lose not yours. I am not the skinniest B**** in the world and I have had many guys ask me to lose weight and the second I hear it I go sorry if you want to change me go find a twig I am not changing for anyone. If you are happy the way you look then F*** him. Just keep a positive attitude and I am sure you will find someone who accepts you. Good Luck. Hope I helped
2006-11-25 05:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KT, that is ridiculous. Your boyfriend is being unreasonable, and also you want to dump him. I have a severe question for you; one which i really want you to imagine tricky about. Why are you so lacking in shallowness and why do you imagine so little of your self that this request would not offend you? would not it look disgusting to you that he should be embarrassed to have you ever round his associates...that he's so ineffective and so into his image that asking you to lose thiry pounds ought to even flow his concepts? that's totally well to attempt to maintain a marginally healthful weight. yet appearances are purely pores and skin-deep, and they don't very last always. human beings get older. They advance wrinkles, gray hair, thinning hair, or perhaps pores and skin blemishes. in case you provide up searching like a variety, will he initiate searching elsewhere? Oh, wait...he already is...he "eye's up" woman fashions "each of the time" (and also you post with this????) provide up starrving your self for someone who would not comprehend the thanks to love the actual you and who purely needs you on your body. you want to inform him for you to not be attempting to lose any weight as your excellent and weight are already proportional and your BMI is interior variety. i'm sorry, notwithstanding it really is basically too a lot to ask. If he strikes on--good riddance to no-vast-loss.
2016-10-16 10:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright first off i think you should do what makes you happy. Just because some people may not like big women dosent mean you should have to change to their liking. If you are happy then stay the way you are. If you do in fact want to lose weight a reall quick way to do it might be by getting gastric bypass surgery. Basically they shrink your stomach. You lose a lot and i mean a lot of weight fast. Good luck in your decision!
2006-11-25 07:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by celicagirl587 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with yourself than that is what matters. I'm sure he fell in love with you for who you are so why should you be made to feel that is no longer good enough? You should never change for someone else, you should change only if you want to change. Does he maybe want you to lose weight because he is concerned about your health? That is a different story.
2006-11-25 05:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by burnettebreeze98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh Hun, no don't lose weight to keep him. He should love you for who you are and not for what you look like or anything like that. He knew from the being who you are and now he wants you to change. That's not a true man at all. Size/Looks/ ect shouldn't matter at all. Girl, go find yourself a good man, that excepts you for you, not for who he wants you to be. Plenty of men to choose from!!!!
Best of luck to you!!!
2006-11-25 05:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cherries 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-11-25 05:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Fat-Chic,
You can still stand to loss a couple hundred pounds and still be a plus sized model. You might even live a little longer. Best of luck to you.
--Rick
2006-11-25 05:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think everyone needs to be healthy. If you're fat, lose the weight. If your too thin and lanky, build up on protein and gain some weight. There is a very broad in-between and everyone should be within that range---HEALTHY!!!
2006-11-25 05:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, fat chicks are in season with winter coming soon. If your health is good and you are cool with who you are then don't bother to loose weight. Boyfriends will come and go but you always have to live with yourself. Just be who and what you want to be.
2006-11-25 05:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think if he likes u then no and if not dump him coz u are who u are and if he dosnt like it then stuff him not everybody is perfect even he may not be as perfect as he act and I think that you need someone in ur life that loves u just as u are :) ur better of without him and dont need his insults coz God made u like that and even God wont want u to change whko u are
2006-11-25 05:22:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋