There's this guy that I really really like. The first time we met, I got a crush on him right away. It's almost 2 years now since the first time that we met, and still, this feeling is inside of me. I want this feeling gone because it's driving me nuts. I don't understand why I still have this kind of feelings for him when we barely even talk. We didn't even have any long conversation either. Just a "Hey" and a "Oh hi!" That's it. But when there are get-togethers, he greets me with a hug, always. There was one time when he really hugged me tight for a minute or 2. He didn't say anything. He just hugged me real tight. And that's it. I don't understand him at all. And I want my feelings for him gone. But how?
2006-11-25 05:08:29 · 3 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
feelings are feelings, keep them, embrace them, love them. you cant just get rid of a feeling they are there for a reason. it sounds like you really like this guy and there is a chance he likes you too. Ask him. that 2 minute hug must have been nice. Good luck
2006-11-25 05:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Daniels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your infactuated with this guy. Why not just ask him out? Worst hes going to say is no. It wouldnt help to ask him though. At least when you do and he says no, then hopefully the feelings will go away cause you'll at least know hes not interested. Some guys like to be friends with a girl first before they want a relationship with them. So ya need to find out soon.
2006-11-25 13:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive seen people hang onto feeling like this for a lifetime. Hopefully he will evetually return your feelings or youll meet someone who blows this guy away.
I feel for you..most of us have been there, done that.
good luck.....I dont envy you.
2006-11-25 13:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋