I met this guy on the internet over 3 years ago. He still contacts me even though he told me I am not the one. We have met about 5 times in 3 years and I repeatedly told him I want closure to move on. I also feel he only contacts me when his list of women have dried up. He is also studying phychology to work in that field. He avoids all serious questions I ask of him. Any feedback would be helpful.
2006-11-25 04:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right - he only calls you when he's run out of other women to call. Move on. Don't answer his calls and especially don't meet with him. You can get closure on your own, without him, and meet a guy who will answer your questions and make you feel like much more than the bottom of the list. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 05:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by wish2bwriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is move on, with or without him. When you do, make sure to let him know about your current love interest. He doesn't sound like a great friend, though.. if I were you I would just stop responding to his emails/phone calls.
2006-11-25 13:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by solaralley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep responding to him. Just ignore him for goodness sakes and then he can not cause you any confusion. What do you need for closure? He told you, you are not the one, that should be enough. Stop putting yourself through unnecessary crap. You are causing yourself the drama. God bless****
2006-11-25 13:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put him on IGNORE! that is such a useful button...keeps the crazies away forever! sounds to me like you are having some mixed emotions over this guy...is he nuts? have you made it to his friends list? does he maybe consider you a friend? you should ignore him if you don't want to talk to him anymore
2006-11-25 13:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read your question to yourself i think you know exactly the way you should go.
there will always be better if you believe you deseve it
2006-11-25 13:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not answer his questions, sounds like he is studying you
2006-11-25 13:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by connie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to leave you alone,if he is only going to use you when he doent have anyone hes not worth it!!!
2006-11-25 13:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by tyraroxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋