He doesn't like her any more but she still has a thing for him. Now that we are having a baby she think she can still him away from me by doing little things like leaving sweet messages and calling him when I am around.
2006-11-25 04:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He shouldnt be talking to her in the first place. You need to tell him that. This ex of his is an ex for a reason. Y'all are getting married soon, and this woman needs to go the hell her own way. Ask your fiance if he would like it if you were talking to your ex. I'm sure he wouldnt. Ya dont have to mean and rude about it, but let him know how you feel. As far as his ex goes, next time she calls, YOU talk to her. Tell her to get her own life. If she keeps insisting on calling, tell her you will file a harrassment charge. I'm sure that'll get her to stop. If it does, then actually file the charge. I hope this help and congrats on the lil one!
2006-11-25 05:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like a fun situation lol, the easyest thing to do is trust him, you should sit down and tell him that this bothers you, and that it causeing you stress, cause my guess is it would be, and stress is a very harrash thing on a pregant women, the best thing you can do is get this in the open with him and have faith in fate, everything will work out as it has been planed
2006-11-25 04:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Todd M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him, and if the two of you are getting married he should tell her to stop calling him. She is an x after all, and an x for a reason. I am sure he would not want an x boyfriend of yours to be calling and making small talk on the phone. Tell him to put his self in your shoes and turn the situation around. God bless****
2006-11-25 04:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the type of person that has a hard time saying no to people? That might be the problem, talk to him without accusations,without anger, and tell him how you feel, not how you think he should act. I have the feeling that he may not want to do so much for her, he just doesn't like to hurt anyone's feelings.
2006-11-25 04:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just as bad if he is sitting and talking with her he should b telling her to not call that he is not interested and that's that .Unless they have a child together there is absolutely no reason for them to be keeping in contact.If he truly wants nothing to do with her then i with my fiance would be changing our cell and home phone number and if she was to show up i would warn her that i would get a restraining order if she kept harassing you guys anyway that's what I would do .
2006-11-25 05:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can want him to leave parts of his past life which might have effect your future life together.
On the other hand i think that she makes you nervous. Tell him the fact and he'll respect you!
wishing you all the best
2006-11-25 05:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you feel threatened by her inappropriate advances and ask him to let her know HE doesn't appreciate her communications. If he is unwilling to put a stop to it, put off your marriage and let him know he will be responsible for child support!
2006-11-25 05:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. Tell him you would never call another woman's man... no decent person would. She obviously wants something.
2006-11-25 04:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by ca_kerri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that I know you dont like her but she still kinda likes you and I dont wanna take my chances just for me could you stop talking to her plz...... or something like that be sweet about it thought and dont demmand it!
2006-11-25 04:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by ddawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are having a baby, how do you possibly expect them to never talk again?
2006-11-25 04:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋