We've been dating for almost a year now, and he says he loves me more than anything, that I'm the woman for him. I'm still in college, (so is he) and I just want to have fun. I'm not ready for a long term relationship, but I don't want to hurt him, what if he's the best I can ever do?
2006-11-25 04:40:34 · 8 answers · asked by Evelyn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's plenty of guys out there - so i doubt he's the best you'll ever get, but he does sound likr a pretty nice guy. Maybe you should tell him that you're not ready for a long term relationship right now - see what happens!
2006-11-25 04:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i am not a good commitment but i had the same problem that you are dealing with I'm just not in college.
well if you don't wanna be with him then you don't have to be with him the only person who's keeping you from being happy is you so just explain to him and tell him your not happy with him give reasons why then say i love you but it's over then you will feel sad for some days then you will start feeling happy because all you have to do is think about all the positive things about the break up.
2006-11-25 12:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's the best you can ever do, then don't let go of him. Don't take him for granted. I promise you, you'll regret it if you know that he's the best you will ever have in your life and you let him slip through your fingers. There's no way that you can't hurt him if you are going to end things between you and him, but just think things through first.
2006-11-25 12:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Matt S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him no matter, what! Explain to him that your feeling change some how. And he deserve some one that going to love him the same. And you are not that person.
2006-11-25 12:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by casamatia32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to do it. There is no way to spare his feelings. It has to be quick and final. Meagning no break up sex, not continued phone calls, etc.
2006-11-25 12:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart,and gut feeling and just sit down with him and becompletly honest no matter how hard it is.
2006-11-25 12:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twll him exactly what you have just written.
you can do it.
it will hurt him far less now
2006-11-25 12:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit giving him sex.....that will make any man leave
2006-11-25 12:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by El Burro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋