Stop mastrubation and porn?

Question

Well i do mastrubate about once every 2 weeks and after that i end up feeling guilty and keep makin resolutions not to do so hence forth but i find that difficult to keep up.
What i dont like is that i mastrubate to porn and i do not wish to look at women as objects of sex and desire as portrayed in most cases rather as an individual person.
The longest i have stayed away from porn and mastrubation is one and a half months .
Both of these are against my religion. I am 23 and have no girlfriend and have never dated though i have been asked out a couple of times.
Any suggestions how to stop porn and Mastrubating.Getting laid is not an option nor is gettin a girlfriend as i have my education as my 1st priority and this does distract me from my engineering studies

Answer 1

Once every 2 weeks is not all that much. You are just normal, don't let your religion make you feel guilty. (I will bet you 99.9% of the people in your religion do it and the .1% that don't have a medical problem) Keep your soft porn and keep studying. The men that are banging every skirt that come their way are the sick ones.

Answer 2

Here's the problem with porn. It can desensitize you. I used to always masturbate to porn. In my relationships, I usually didn't want to have sex as often as my partner would have liked. I always blamed it on attitude, but then I tried an experiment. I stopped porn completely when I started dating someone. Through two relationships, the sex was very often & very great! Point proven. When not in a relationship though, I don't see any detrimental effects, as long as it's socially healthy porn (no degradation of any kind). Also, I've been on Paxil & Welbutrin & yes, they do make it much easier to ignore those feeling & concentrate on more important things.

Answer 3

Since you don't have a girlfriend I recommend you continue with the masturbation, but instead of using porn checkout the website below for media that shows how to have sex in a loving way. By doing this you will be preparing yourself for some lucky lady in your future.

Answer 4

Just keep "spanking the old monkey" and you will be fine. This is a release of tension and frustration. Don't feel guilty you are normal. You don't have to change your views of women because you watch dirty movies. You can still keep your views. You have to remember that what you are watching is a MOVIE not real life for you.

If you really want to stop then you will have to get rid of all the movies and you will have to not touch yourself. Any touch is going to make things worse. I can't imagine why anyone would want to torture themselves like this. EVERYONE DOES IT!!!!!

Answer 5

Try something to occupy your free time.Hobbies?Volunteer work?Stuff like that.

I hear you on the not wanting to look at women like that.I love porn,as does lots of dudes,but you have to draw the line between porn and real life.Real women are not porn stars.They have minds and hopes and dreams.Just learn to separate the two and you'll be happy.

Answer 6

i think masturbation is normal, its ur own body ur touching and as long as it stays that way its fine, don't feel guilty, its totally normal as fro the porn well don't leave them lying around where you can access them easily. i don't think any religion is against discovering yourself. i myself am 29 and still do it even though I'm married and have a husband, its just natural to do that once in a while.

Answer 7

Awww. I know how you feel. I would substitute. But seriously.. i know you are studying and all, but i would consider getting into the dating world.. i dont mean to get "laid" but just relax and have fun. 9 times out of ten, you are doing what you are doing because u may be stressed out or need something to do..

Answer 8

to stop watching porn you should masturbate over your food supplies. Then, when your hungry youll have nothing to eat. Over a period of time either masturbation or hunger will win.

I tried this myself and it worked. Although remember to open canned food, as it can still be used if it is propperly sealed, and thus your objective cannot be achieved.

Hope this helps.

Answer 9

What do you think, we're all miracle workers? Get a girlfriend and start having sex to take your mind off of porn and wacking off. No easier solution my friend. If you're that busy, you wouldn't have time to spank it to porn, now would you?

Answer 10

It's not easy quitting any habit. It takes will power. you can't stop anything altogether. Continue doing your habit for one more week, do it to your hearts desire. Then the next week do it less and less. It takes time, baby. But you can do it.