so my sis (we are 14 year old twins) went out with a guy who is 15 (but our birthdays are in jan.) and didn`t like him at all so she told me to tell him the she dosenot like him(because i `m 6 min older)so should i tell him or should i tell my sis that her to tell him?
2006-11-25 04:20:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should make sure she tells him, she has got to grow up and its you've to help her. You're the same age but you are the mature one. Help her make the right, though desision.
2006-11-25 04:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by the Machine knows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are 6 mins older doesn't make you OLDER than her. It is not in months or years. Ask her to tell him. If you start doing this for her now, she will continue to ask you to do more of this kind later. She will end up not following through on decisions she makes in the future. Gently tell her you can't and stick to it.
2006-11-25 12:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by happykat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you planning interviewing for HER first job? Are you going to call in sick for HER when she is not well? Are you going to accept or turn down HER first marriage proposal? Are you going to give birth to HER first child? No, you are not so why are you going to start filling in for her now? She needs to be more mature and handle her personal situations personally (i mean that makes sense right, if its her decision than who can say it but her) Besides, this is a growing period where she has to learn how to stand up for herself and communicate what she feels. You can't be the one to speak for her, she needs to do it and it starts now with little things like this.
2006-11-25 12:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Age 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that it is none of your business and to politely decline the next time he asks her out!
2006-11-25 12:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say, my sister had fun but she only wants to be friends...he'll get the point, tell your sister even though she's 6 min. younger then you, fight her own battles...
2006-11-25 12:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's really her duty to tell him. Why are you even thinking of doing this for her? Are you going to ask her to do the same for you?
2006-11-25 12:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is the one with the problem
2006-11-25 12:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she should be the one to tell him.She shouldn't feel bad. If you like them ,you like them, if you don't you don't.It's better to just be straight up with someone. He'll understand and they can still be friends.
2006-11-25 12:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dana u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHE should tell him. If she's old enough to be dating someone, she's old enough to take care of the bad parts of it too.
2006-11-25 12:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister should tell him since she is the one that dated him!!!
2006-11-25 12:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Heather S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋