There is this guy but I am not sure if he likes me for me or if he just wants me as his girlfriend so that he can get sex, me thats still a virgin...I am not ready for that. So I dont know whether he is just keeping me around for that, although he does take me out and pays for me. What should I do?
2006-11-25 04:20:48 · 6 answers · asked by MB2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he tries to get in your pant tell him your not ready for that step and if he dont call you back then hes just wanting sex.
2006-11-25 04:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying is not the answer, you know? What do you see when you look into his eyes? Lust? Love? If you are still a virgin, then you might want to insist on remaining one. Tell him that when you were born, no one asked for your opinion if you wanted to come to life, when you will die, no one will ask for your opinion if you want to die or not. The one major thing you are to give you opinion, is when to lose your virginity.
Stay with this guy, but make sure not to have sex with him too early. Say, after 5-6 months would be great. I recomend it. That is what I am doing myself, and it is working.
2006-11-25 12:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by narcissa_bl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to have sex then dont. Also, do you even like this guy or just with him cause he takes you out and pays? If so then you are the one using him and that isnt cool either. Good luck.
2006-11-25 12:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your a virgin and that your not into the sex life just yet if he really likes you he can waite.
2006-11-25 12:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Danny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give your virginity to him, if all he wants is sex, then he will leave when he figures out you wont give him any. you need to talk to him and find out what he is wanting or how he feels about you.
2006-11-25 12:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by calico_gurl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give your virginity up to him, no matter what he says. If he really cares about you then he'll stay, and if that's all he cares about (sex) then he'll get fed up and leave. Then you'll know.
2006-11-25 12:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋