i still love my ex boyfriend and we talk all the time and we both still liek eachother but he dont want us to get bck together because he dont want one of us to get hurt......but yet i cant get over him???
2006-11-25 04:20:23 · 8 answers · asked by Puppy love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it sounds like yall still goin' out!!
but do not take the 2nd person's answer, he said get a new BF, no, wrong answer, don't do that!!
your ex boyfriend would get jealous to see you with another guy, then he would get another girl, then you would be feeling jealous, so if yall do that one, then yall will end up gettin' hurt any ways
another thing, if he sees you with another guy, he could start messin around with you again and flirtin' and stuff then you will choose him back and then you'll be hurting the other boy's heart!!
So you see why you shouldnt get another man!!
I think you should keep doin as your doin, hug him hard evertime you see him, tell him you've been missin his face!!
Tease him a little with revealing clothes when you come around him and act a little
Start by making promises with him about love, sex and marriage and other things you might prefer with your ex, so that no one can get hurt emotionally because yall have already talked and promised about everthing that might come up in the future!
If he truly still wants you, eventually, he'll ask you back out!!
2006-11-25 04:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a hard thing. But love comes and goes with the wind and isnt predictable. You two have decided to not be togeather for reasons you guys have agreed on. Your heart never lies to you, so Id think getting back togeather wouldnt be a good thing. Something in your heart told you the relationship wasnt working and so you broke up.. Yes you still love him though, love is a *****, it leaves when It gets ready, not when you do. there may be a chance for you two to work in out in the future. But its obvious you guys need time apart to think about things and work some personal things out. Untill you BOTH have thought about everything and worked it out..you guys wont be able to see what it is that is making you not "work" . Find whats not working and fix it. But this doesnt happen in a night, it takes time so be patient. Love takes time.
I wish you luck. If it doesnt work out then try to find happiness in yourself. Be happy to still have him as a friend. You will always love him. And always be a part of your life forever. Dont forget that but dont dwell on it. Be happy to have had him in your life. And continue being friends. Thats all that you can do . Who knows.. maybe you guys will get back togeather, then all the pain u went through would seem like wasted effort. :), So dont put your self through pain, just try to go with it...
2006-11-25 04:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by stoneydork21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a weak reason to not get back with someone you still have feelings for. Are you sure he's not loosing his feelings for you? If not and he's really just to scared, give things some time but stay friends with him. Remind him every so often that you would like to give the relationship another try.
2006-11-25 04:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you cant have a relationship without getting hurt some where allong the line!!! thats life, but isnt the good times in between worth it??
And maybe you should leave him allone for a while so you cab she what life without you would be like!
2006-11-25 04:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you guys really love eachother and it was ment to be you'll be togeher because if ur talking and stuff and bonding.
don;t you think that love is going to grow stronger?
and its gonna be to the point where.
it doesn;t matter. about these lil things.
all its gonna matter is he wants to be with you.
and you know ur gonna have to trust and have faith in wats gonna happen and hope for the best, and not just look for the negative.
and you grow stronger each time you get hurt.
2006-11-25 04:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. Or get a new BF, that normaly works.
2006-11-25 04:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time sometimes things happen and you can build on that. Be patient.
2006-11-25 04:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no use asking other ppl, just look for d answer in ur heart, i'm sure u'll find it. trust urself.
2006-11-25 04:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by ridhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋