I REALLY like a girl, that use to like me but i dunno what shes thinking anymore, WHAT DO I DO!? please help!!

Question

Basically i am in highschool and over the summer holidays a friend told me that she liked me, and being the person i am i didnt really give her an answer, i just said that i was flattered and kinda left it at that. Then school starts and i start talking to her more, and started to like her too. When i finally had the guts to tell her, she rejected me, because there is this new guy, and time goes on and we still talk alot and i am still REALLY in love with her. Then not too long ago we were alone and we start talking about random things, and she ends up telling me that she still kinda likes me, but she also REALLY likes this other guy (even thought he doesnt like her in return) and i also told her that i still really like her, things end up leading us to holding hand and hugging....I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO, she tells me that she still KINDA likes me, but REALLY likes this other guy. PLEASE HELP, if anyone could suggest things i ask her next time we are alone or things i can do...thanks

Some of my friends are telling me that she may be using me as a back up, for when she DOES get over this guy. Another friend suggests that she might only be using my to see if she can make this other guy jealous....STILL sooo confused and REALLY love her but dont know what to do

Answer 1

If you genuinely like her just keep being her friend. You also have the option of looking at who else is availble for you, I don't mean in a game playing way. Things either will or won't work out with this other guy, you either will or won't get involved with someone else. In the meantime, you have the benefit of being friends with someone you really like. Remember, it took time for your feelings for her to develope and she had to deal with that. Real relationships take time and patience and consideration, so relax and let things develop naturally. And don't worry about what your friends say, they're all as confused as you are.

Answer 2

Romance her. She may be interested in the other guy, but no girl can resist a romantic, especially if she already thinks you are attractive. When she tells you things, even little things like her fav candy bar, remember it and think of ways to show her you remember and care. Watch some old romance movies for ideas. Trust me, you play it right, and she'll fall for you hard. Actions always speak louder than words.

Answer 3

dude here's a thing i feel like she's using u a lil bit don't be all over her and dont say i like u to her alot ignore her not alot but a lil bit make her feel like she needs u and if she doesnt respond or askes u whats the matter just forget about her then there is alot other girls around the place.

Answer 4

ha ha ha ......... i am sorry about that , i think what u should do if u relly like her is to ask her out bring her to beautiful place and tell her your true feelings , if she refuses to go out with u then try to catch her when she is in a good mood and try expressing your feelings to her (TRY PRACTIEING AT HOME FIRST) IF U HAVE ANAYTHING ELES PLS E-MAIL ME AT:[e-mail] BEST OF LUCK FROM ME.

Answer 5

Anyone who says they like you but really like another person is a player.
Dump her before she dumps you for him

Answer 6

DUDE!!! Ask her out. If yes, good for you. If no, ther are plenty more fish in the sea.

Answer 7

ok I think that you have to do something to show her how much you care. make her fall in love with you. thats what id do. good luck =]

Answer 8

dude...there are more chics out there. youre young and hormonal.

Answer 9

ASK HER OUT SHE SAYS YES YOU WILL HAVE YOUR ANSWER.