Ok so yeah i might be a bit young but i supose it could be called "Puppy love" because i am only 13. Well anyway, my x boyfriend and I were going out for about four months, then about a day after we "properly" kissed, he started to ***** about me, saying i was a rubbish kisser and also he called me a fridge, he is 13 aswell but even though most girls dont find him atractive, he belives that he is "gods gift" , if you get what im getting at? well any way before we were going out he started to text me and asked me out also he said he wouldnt dump me because he "Loved" me. We dont go to the same secondary schools and we are both in year eight (English system of schooling) I dont want to go back out with him but i sort of want him to "love" me again so then if he did ask me out, i could hurt him back and say that i dont want to go out with him because he bitched about me.. etc.
so is this normal or is he just driving me crazy!
Sorry if my spelling and/or grammer is wrong bt im dislexic
2006-11-25 03:00:09 · 18 answers · asked by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a sweet and intelligent young girl...with feelings! We have all experienced this once in our young lives and I want to tell you that you need to give yourself some room! Don't worry about him or the guys, they will always be there, and believe me, you will be noticed! Take some time to be young and enjoy your time developing into womanhood. You are feeling strong desires and this is normal, but the question is, can you take control of these strong desires and urges? We need to be careful these days since with everything going around and the traps we might fall into! Don't be too hasty and jump into something you are not to sure about. You do well to listen to people with experience and age. Don't fight them and their advice! They really know what's good for you and people your age. If anything, give yourself some time too weigh things out and reflect on what you've heard. Good luck and have fun!
2006-11-25 03:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a fine job of explaining your problem. !3 is very young to be having a relationship. I do believe that "puppy love" is very real and produces strong feelings. He doesn't sound very nice, if he trashes you now, he will always trash you. What does he expect of a kiss anyway from an inexperienced 13 year old.This is somewhat typical and cruel for this age. Be mature and don't hurt him back. Just be a lady and learn from your experience.
2006-11-25 03:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah you're shallow and gullible (ey!) and are not plenty for employing your head what with the cheating on correct of you being too youthful alongside with each and each of something of your drama. attempt retaining your zipper zipped and forget having boyfriends because of the fact it rather is glaring which you're just to immature to make certain which you're being a push over for those adult men who're seeking to exploit you.
2016-10-17 12:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, at 13 there is heaps more guys out there for you to date mayby by him saying you are a bad kisser and a fridge is his way of covering up his insecurities, the fact he thinks he is gods gift to woman us woman are pretty smart the only thing we notice him for is humour factor of him being a joke...ignore his text get on with your life and meet someone else!
Good Luck
2006-11-25 03:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on! Lose the vindictive attitude! It's unattractive! You've just experienced one of many incidents in searching for a soul mate. By wanting to "get back" at this one guy is foolish.
2006-11-25 03:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
13 is too young to really understand what love is. if this guy really loved you, he would break up with you after a first kiss.
he sounds like a really shallow idiot. be glad that you only kissed him and didn't do anything further with him.
move on with your life.. you deserve better!
2006-11-25 03:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea its normal,when someone hurts the other person they usually want to get payback.But two wrongs don't make a right.The best way to get payback is just show him that you're happy without him
2006-11-25 03:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's completely normal to want to get back at your ex for hurting you & saying cruel things ,but seriously he's so not worth your time !!! why lower yourself to his standards !!
look your young & he is just the first of many guys who will do & say something stupid !!!!!
i know your hurt but consider yourself lucky & smart ,not to be with such an idiot !!!
but it couldn't hurt to tell people he kisses like a lizard either hahahaha !!!!! LOL
2006-11-25 03:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by you don't know me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you should do is go on with your life. Count it as an experience of many more that will come your way in your life time and above all enjoy life as it comes your way.
2006-11-25 03:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he doesnt even know what love is... and someone cant love you if they dont know you. your 13. dont give him the time of day. in fact forget about him. who cares what he thinks. im sure your attractive and someone else will like you later on. dont waste your time on guys like that.
2006-11-25 03:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋