My life as someone said has stoped before it began.I'm 17 and i have a daughter by a 24 year old man.She got takin because of our contact with eachother.Shes 5 mouths old.I feel she dosen't know her mom.i cant even see her.iv been trying to get her back it feels like forever. blame myself who else to blame right? but i beat myself up ending it has come to mind but im a strong person.now the person i look up to and love tell the end is breaking down.saying he might die some.he has some heath problems! stress is killing him. this is the only person i have in this world. i cant give up i just can't.but iv been working so hard and getting smacked down over & over again.give up?
2006-11-25 01:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by ~Native Solider~! 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
don't quit.Your life just start.
2006-11-25 01:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your life has not stopped - in fact it seems like you have an overwhelming amount of it right now. If you are in school right now stay in school and graduate. If not try to find a job to keep you busy and build up your finances and show just how responsible you can be. Contact your local Womens Resource Center for counseling and help with getting your daughter back. They can provide assistance with just about anything you might need right now including someone to talk to. Don't give up just take things a day at a time - I know its not easy not to worry about whats going to happen but it only hurts you and doesn't change what will happen. You said you are a strong person - stick by the one you love and give as much support as you can right now - never feel that your love is not enough. Good luck.
2006-11-25 09:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up, if you give up you'll have a daughter whose mother gave up on her. You're in a heartbreaking situation and I honestly don't know how I'd cope in your shoes, but you have to focus on what you love, and that's your daughter. People go through this world loving nobody, but you have your daughter to love and you can get your strength from that. Keep fighting to get her back, it'll be so worth it when you do. I'm sorry that your partner is breaking down and that you can't get your strength from him anymore, but all this means is that you have to be strong for the both of you. Start each day with a positive thought, approach a professional about what you have to do to get your daughter back and do everything you can, even if that means completely turning your life around. She is what's most important in your life, and if you have to make sacrifices so you can get her back then do it, otherwise you'll spend your whole life knowing that you're not being a mother to your child.
2006-11-25 09:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds terrible. Your life is not over yet, though. Time continues to roll on, just keep developing as a person and you will get your daughter back. Never EVER end it though, you will wish you hadn't (im not religious either, but Bipolar!) keep working hard and growing and nature will show you the way,
As far as death goes, I believe we are 2 living beings in 1, body and soul. Just because a person dies does not mean they are not there for you.... While losing that person is very scary, you are really not losing them at all. In fact, they are in a place where they can do more for you! IMO
Keep on truckin'.
J
2006-11-25 12:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First rule of normalcy:
Have more than one 'anchor' against depression and loneliness.
If you only love one person in friendship and trust, and that person goes, then you will be all alone.
You need to get out more, and finds some friends. The guy who you think you love, might have taken advantage of your youth and innocence... It will get better, if you have a job and a home, for your daughter...
You could use a friend, or, someone who will listen. This behavior on your part is a bit obsessive and you really could use some professional counceling...
Ask for it, and follow through. Please.
2006-11-25 09:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up , show some character and strength to fight for and keep what you want in life but remember one thing if you do succeed and get your child back you cant have these thoughts of doing away with yourself you need to be there always for them so start now and show how strong and determined you really are .
2006-11-25 09:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you make it. If you want it to be over or if you want to strive to get it back together, the choice is yours! I hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-25 10:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by prechemad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you never give up, this is your baby and you love it. You have to show it that you would do anything for it. You can't loose this opportunity to love her. Tell your partner that he he has to bee strong too!!!
2006-11-25 09:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never give up things will work out. everything happens for a reason in our lives.
2006-11-25 09:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray and keep on praying the lord here;s your prays it might not seem like it but he will answer you but what ever you do don't give up keep on fighting
god bless you child
2006-11-25 09:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up, even at your lowest ebb remember your daughter, fight what you have to for her, so that you can be together again...;
2006-11-25 09:42:38 · answer #11 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋