theres this boy @ school i'm mad about n my m8s were convinced he likes me 2 cuz he eyed me up, showed off all the time n always smiled weneva he saw me.
But on wednesday, him n his m8s were playin around with a bouncy ball n jack (the boy) was standin round by us chasing after the ball but then......one of his m8s threw it DIRECTLY @ ME !!!! :o:o:o:o:o and jack started running up to me his face beaming bless him and then with out thinking... I MOVED OUT THE WAY then the ball went in the big bush bhind me n he beant dwn n looked for it (still smiling)
but the thing is, if i hadnt moved out the way we would have definitely 100% have our first convo together and i just knew that was his way of makin a move n i cnt believe i blew it x( x( x(
finally, ever since i saw him this week after t his incident he aint smiled @ me @ all n he alwasy used to wether he was with his m8s or nt :(:(:(:(:(
i'm 14 btw incase u wanna no hes 13/14)
i just want u to tell me honestly
HAVE I BLEW IT ?
2006-11-25 00:34:34 · 13 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What an earth shattering event!
2006-11-25 00:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
when i was your age i had the same feelings about someone and never did anything about it.i still wonder what would have happened all these years later and somtimes regret not doing anything.at the moment your gonna feel confused, scaried and will be gettin those all important butterflies in the tummy feelings.
my advise is simple.
go for it.
whats the worst thing that can happen.
rejection?
well its a corny thing to say but its better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.
i remember love at that age and its horrible and fantastic, scary and amazing all at the same time.
in the long run you'll be a better person if you just go for it and take the risk.
YOU GO GIRL.
& good luk.lets us know how it goes.
2006-11-25 00:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by aberdeen302004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try flirting back or actually, dare I say it, talk to him! tell him to stop throwing balls at you and act like a man. You expect him to take you out next saturday for drinks (alcohol free) at a coffee shop, bring flowers, buy dinner and whisk you to a romantic scene by the river/castle/sea and whisper romantic nothings into your ear.
AND get you back in time for tea so your mum doesn't worry about you being out late.
So what are you waiting for - go get im tiger!
2006-11-25 03:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. That is the only time you will have to ask a lad out you like when you see him at least 5 days a week...
2006-11-25 03:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not have mattered if you had spoken to him. I doubt whether he could have understood a word you would say to him. Perhaps if you entered the real world and spoke and typed in proper words and English he might enjoy a conversation with you. Even your last line asked," Have I blew it." The word is BLOWN. Those looking to answer questions might also have more interest in your situation. This site is not a text phone and there is no speed input required.
2006-11-25 00:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol. aye gurl dont worry u are putting this too much into prospective!RELAX!he showed of in front of his friends because he likes u duhh.... lol all guys do tat to impres a gurl evn if it means acting silly at times!U sound sorta shy, u need to not b shy n find out if this guy lyks u becuz he isnt worth ur tym if he doesnt n u can get any guy u want!Sersly u shuld talk to him ok its no point liking the dude n not speaking to him thats jst silly! if ur realli shy(like me)get ur friends to go up to him with u...its easy:Pand from then on u guys shuld talk heapz:Djst memba to relax n who cares if u make a fool outa urself,jst be urself n memba if he lyks u thats GREAT if he doesnt there r plently out there:PGOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-25 00:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.im sure there will be another opportunity.Good Luck
2006-11-25 01:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u have
2006-11-25 01:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by sircrazydude90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young huh!anyway that' s puppy love
2006-11-25 00:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by weng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-25 00:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no hun i don't think you blew it. Maybe when you've seen him he had something else on his mind. say hi to him with a big grin and i'm sure he'll do the same
2006-11-25 00:37:33 · answer #11 · answered by madmoo0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋