my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 months.... he can be the greatest guy i could ever ask for, he buys me whatever i want, takes me where ever i want to go but i'm just not happy... he's way too clingy, he flips out on me over the littlest things, when i don't want to have sex he complains and pouts until i give in, when i don't want to cuddle he gets mad and throws stuff... he even told me that he's obsessed with me and that he'd never let me go... well there's more, on nov 22nd i cheated on him and i don't regret it at all, i even want to break up with him but i'm scared what he might do to himself or even me... please give me advice
2006-11-25 00:15:44 · 8 answers · asked by lizlarae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are involved with a potential abuser/stalker. Be more afraid of what he will do to you than what he will do to himself. From what you write, he hasn't said he would hurt himself. He said that he'd never let you go - that is scary. Those are the guys who end up killing the girl. You need to get away from him now! Is it possible for you to move? If so, I would move without telling him first. I truly believe you are in a dangerous situation.
2006-11-25 00:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he will be hurt but u need to do whats right for u. i don't think i could stay in a relationship with someone if i was not happy. its best to break it off now then later trust me. It might hurt him for a while but trust me he will get over it. i know that this sounds harsh but its for the best.
2006-11-25 08:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by lregan7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM and go into 'hibination' for a few months. Or you can try to set up your worst enemy with him - then she can be his problem.
I'm sad to hear you're going through this. Hang in there, but try to get rid of him - clingyness can become obsession and obsession is a problem.
2006-11-25 08:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by hollywoodabs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to go to counseling. Once there, tell the counselor that you believe he's suicidal and once you break up with him, you're afraid he's going to hurt himself. The counselor will make sure nothing happens.
2006-11-25 08:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, your on a one way road to nowhere. Get out before you get in any deeper. Break it off and mean it. Good luck!
2006-11-25 08:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him that you don't fell the same way any more,and that it's not far to him at all.and we should break the chain.and say sorry and kiss him on the cheak.
2006-11-25 08:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what is your feelings to him. Be with yourself...
2006-11-25 08:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by mich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your gut instinct
2006-11-25 08:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋