I like both A and B but I chose A and B tried to be my friend and I told B I couldn't just be his friend and good luck to him..etc..was I wrong? It was just too hard for me to be just his friend..do you think he can understand my feelings? (Or do you think he will hate me...? I didn't tell him I chose A but he knew I was confused...with him and A..I also told him it was my fault not his I just didn't want to give him trouble...
2006-11-25 00:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look there is no harm in being friends is there? B must be feeling quite down. come at least be his friend. tell him everything. better he hears it from you than from an outside source
2006-11-25 00:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!
Actually, the situation is really confusing... It appears that you like them both... You had chosen A, but the thing is, you can't totally release B... As what you have said , "I couldn't just be his friend".... I think it is really too hard if you really both love the persons. Maybe B can't really understand what you feel because he thought that you like him more than just a friend...
But I will just ask, who you really love more? A or B... ? You should measure yourself of how you trully feels for the two of them... And another one, who trully loves you? Is it A or B? If the situation sounds so confusing to you, then these questions will help you decide of whom you really wanted to be with..
I know you have chosen A... But are you really happy enough in the situation? Or, you are not just having a peace of mind because you are worried about B? Then, you talk to him... Through that, you can clear things... Explain to him everything and I know he will understand...
Cheer up! Just smile and don't feel so depressed!
Good luck, girl!
2006-11-27 18:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Rochelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should still be friends with B because they both like you and you choose A so B must feel really hurt over what happen even though he doesnt show it! i was in the same situation but now im friends with BOTH guys n ii like someone different..sersly jst act normal and everything will b fine!:D
2006-11-25 08:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the curtain comes down, it is over. If you stay friends with him, he will feel he can drop in, call when he wants and if you are planning on moving into another serious relationship, that would not be good. Let it go,
2006-11-25 08:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why can't you date more than one guy at a time...unless you are serious about someone i do not see why you can't...then you can find out the qualities you like and find out which guy you do prefer...explain yourself and then you should be ok...you do not want to be with anyone possessive or jealous anyway...and the whole idea is to go out and enjoy yourself and be friends until you go the next step anyway...
2006-11-25 08:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just be his friend? is it impossible for men and women to be friends? And yes he will hate you and you have probably damaged his self esteem irreparably. Why is it so necessary for girls to play such games.
2006-11-25 08:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why care? B hit the bricks,and A is your choice.
2006-11-25 08:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is a and b and whoever they I just wanna let u know u did the right thing
2006-11-25 08:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by chantay w. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not. Why are you stressing? Sounds like you may like him more than you are admitting to yourself.
2006-11-25 08:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what he did
2006-11-25 08:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by hotchick456 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋