Men are cheating liars. Why should I stay a virgin until marriage when men cheat and give wives STDs?
2006-11-25 00:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by smart 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I suggest the woman demands the man who claims he's a virgin and has no STDs to get tested before actually getting married. If the man refuses, then you have your liar. I think that it should work both ways for both sexes (if the man wants their fiancee to get tested, she should not refused either if she is honest about her virginity or lacking STDs). I think that's best solution for guaranteeing safety and honesty
2006-11-25 00:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by vseng 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
women do the same thing too don't forget . it wont its a moral issue that someone has with them self . why you what one sooner. what makes you think that your boyfriend is any safer and not all Studs are contracted from sex ,. you can be at work and some one there might have herpes and be in a out break and touch you with an open score and guess what you now are the proud carrier of herpes for the rest of your life and then you go home with out knowing it and give it to your husband and family . or what about a person that caught aids from a blood transfusion at a hospital during a open heart surgery . or a 9 month old that has leukemia and caught aids from a plasma transfusion . and all STD are caught from having sex . and there ant nothing that can protect you 100% from it either especial marriage . but that's when trust comes in if you don't have trust in a marriage or in any relationship then you just set yourself up for trouble and yes sometimes you dint even know that your in trouble in a relationship in tell its too late just don't judge people base on a few rotten eggs . i hope this helps
2006-11-25 09:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even know what a STD is????? It is a sexually transmitted disease. If you abstain from haveing sex, you will not get an STD. That is how. Women cheat too. Don't kid yourself. You would think because you might have a love and self respect for yourself, and that would be the best reason to abstain.
In the days that we all now live, even if you never had sex with anyone, and you finally found your mate for life, If that mate had out of marriage sex before he met you, you not only are sleeping with him, but you are also sleeping with all the other women before you. Guarenteed, there will always be something that one of your mate's former partners left him, simply because of the way our world is today. All this world think about is sex sex sex.
1 John 2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
Galatians 5:16 This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
The majority of this world just does not get it. We are only passing through this world that we live in as pilgrims. Our destination to be our final place to live for all eternity is heaven, should you choose to live your life for God and accept Jesus as your savior.
The world and life that we have right now is short and will end. But our soul shall either live on in heaven for all eternity, which is never ending, or it shall be in hell for eternal torment with satan.
Revelation 20:10 And the devil that deceived them was cast into the lake of fire and brimstone, where the beast and the false prophet are, and shall be tormented day and night for ever and ever.
But you must choose where you want to spent that eternity before you leave this world.
Satan knows that us humans are weak when it comes to our flesh. So he convinces everyone who wilil believe his lies that sex is good and good to do because it feels so good. A moment of joy will cost a person their life as well as their good health.
Matthew 26:41 Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.
2006-11-25 08:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like all men cheat. There you are wrong. BOYS cheat, MEN are faithful to their wifes. My advice, stay virgin and marry a MAN not a BOY. Find a MAN who treats you like a LADY. Remember BOYS like to play around, MEN want a steady and long lasting relationship.
2006-11-25 08:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never had sex before I was married and after her death have not had any. am engaged and told her we were not going to do anything sexual until we are married. I am one hundred per cent loyal to the Lady I go with and I expect the same in return, otherwise the relationship is doomed to fail from the start.
2006-11-25 08:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a gay man who lived in a monogamous relationship with his partner for almost 12 years (until he sadly died of cancer), I can tell you that men are not all cheating liars. While many are, so are many women. Your bias and self-righteousness are likely to lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy.
2006-11-25 08:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, that's d point!
not having pre-marital sex will ensure that u have sex ONLY with a single partner in ur life, removing the risk of HIV
it will take a lot of time 4 everyone 2 gel into the idea, but slowly, and steadily...
2006-11-25 08:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by sushobhan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just hope you aren't having sex with so much anger in you. Any man who thinks you are less for having had sex before getting married to him is low.
2006-11-25 08:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
.....and if those men jumped off a bridge, you would do the same?
Please, saying that others do it too is a very weak argument.
Think for yourself!
2006-11-25 08:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With that level of trust, it might be best you dump the guy.
2006-11-25 08:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Br. Dymphna S.F.O 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋