i was friends with this girl for a couple of years and showed signs she was interested in me so i gave her a letter asking her out
and she was happy about receiving it then last night i overheard her talking about her boyfriend to someone else but didnt give me
an answer to my letter so i just walked out i seen her come out after me to avoid any excuses or crap i ran into a shop and now i fear our friendship is over ive been cryin non stop an i feel i now have nothing to live for so very suicidal . any ideas on what i can do and SERIOUS answers only
2006-11-25 00:06:28 · 17 answers · asked by David 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i ran out because it came a shock to me what she said i just froze on the spot and didnt know what to do so i thought just walk away
2006-11-25 00:10:52 · update #1
someone said she was talking bout me it was a different name to mine she mentioned didnt even sound near mine
2006-11-25 00:15:25 · update #2
im 18 yrs old
ive cryed because i feel ive lost her friendship forever also i cry because if she told me she had a b.f i wouldnt have asked her out
2006-11-25 00:18:46 · update #3
i feel im going for a hatrick cause i met a girl about this a year ago we broke up in march she had an affair with another guy
2006-11-25 00:25:19 · update #4
i only said in the letter i would like to take you for a drink sometime if you were not too busy
2006-11-25 00:28:33 · update #5
wow thats tough. before you do anything just calm down. if shes not into you than you can still be friends. no biggie. just calm down watch a movie. trust me i went through the same thing. totaly dont know what the hells going on people saying stuff about you behind your back. you dont need to suffer alone. just go home relax and forget about it for now. Girls need time to comprehend stuff belive me. i am one! Keep fighting!
2006-11-25 00:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... *itches and bros may come and go, but life lasts forever. No woman or guy is worth killing yourself over. Apparently, if she was excited about getting your letter but has a boyfriend, she's confused. Give her a little bit of time (like a week or so) and then ask her what's going on and if she still has the boyfriend. If she does, then move on. You seem like a very sweet and sensitive guy and you don't deserve to be treated like crap.
2006-11-25 08:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you didn't give her enough time to answer the letter. Maybe she was planning to break up with her boyfriend and give you a chance. Don't jump to conclusions.
And, if she is a nice, respectful girl, then she'll let you know in a nice, respectful way, that she's seeing someone else. That's as good as she can do.
If she doesn't, you're better off without her.
2006-11-25 08:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Calc44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your life thinking that it is already the end of the world..
In the first place... Knowing that the girl has a boyfriend then that definitely is the reason why she is not answering your letter...
Sometimes we are misinterpreting the gestures of somebody... Like, thinking that she had shown interest on you..? Maybe you just misinterpreted her being friendly.. Sometimes we think that somebody likes us, but actually we are just fascinated by our hopes that maybe she has also the same feeling as we have... But actually, they just like us as a friend...
Move on... Don't waste your life.. Convince yourself that maybe she is not really for you... that someone else is destined to be the one... Remove your attention to her.. Maybe, for that couple of years, you just concentrated on her and have forgotten to look sideways.. front and back... Maybe there are somebody that is better than her... Oh.. I mean, not maybe.. Surely... there are..
Good luck! Don't be dep!ressed
2006-11-25 08:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rochelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have put your friend in an awkward situation as she already has a bf. I think that you should take the fact that she hasn't given you an answer as a sign she isn't interested and call / see her to explain you needed to let her know you're attracted to her but you would rather your friendship continue as it is than have it ruined. Good luck....
2006-11-25 08:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by BigMama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens, try and retain your dignity - at least you won't feel too bad. I suggest that you try and get yourself composed and then you go out and act like nothings happened - as if you had not given her the letter. If she refers to the letter or what you had overheard, then just blank her.
2006-11-25 08:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by extremely_confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend you are on the border of doing some thing very silly do not try even to take your life this is the devil speaking to you ,
go ask the girl what is really it all about.
to be honest if she had no fellings for you she would not run after you ,
go ask her where you both stand
god bless you both.
brother charlie from n.ireland.
2006-11-25 11:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Charles C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really know girl is worth your life...and their is plenty more women out there...get a grip on yourself and do not let this bother you like it is....it may hurt some and for awhile but keep yourself busy and get over this...do not think about harming yourself...that is a cowards way out and against gods will..there is plenty i know that loves and cares for you and you should think about them...their is a right girl for you if you just live your life and someone that is your mate will come along...
2006-11-25 08:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my.. don't ever think of committing suicide..R u not afraid of GOD.? How bout your mom...? don't you love her anymore. After 9 months of carrying you in her wombs...come to think of it. Maybe you just need someone to talk to. IM me..lets have some nice conversation. Im online 4 u.
2006-11-25 08:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with Daniel H.. Grow up. your just jumpimg to a conclusion. there could of beem a million things she was talking bout.
eg1. she could have been bragging to someone making him up
eg2. she might have been talking about u
eg3. she might just not like you in that way
2006-11-25 08:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by azza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋