I was seeing this guy and it was going well but when i was in bed with him i brought up my ex, he only came into my mind because he had done my head in that day i dint say anything good about my ex at the time but this guy thinks i still love my ex but i dont and he dont want to see me anymore as he is hurt do you think he will ever forgive me i have said sorry loads of times but he still aint talking to me.
2006-11-24 23:21:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy should forgive u lol,it slipped out ryt,and u asked for forgiveness,why is he treatn u lyk dis,or is it an excuze dat he want quits,if so ask him to be honest with u,if dats not the case why is he actin lyk dis,ok fyn it aint cul if ur partner says out the name of an ex but if the partner is sorry bout it then one deservs to be forgiven,talk to him if he still think dat he needs to be mad at you give him a week then its over if he doesnt want to compromise then u will know u deserve sum 1 better,never give up on yourself,and do live your life well
2006-11-24 23:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by loveguru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never talk about your ex while in bed with your current. That goes for men and women. What ever happened to getting married?
My ex took off in 2003 so she could live with her mom and dad. I got the speech," your a good husband, good father and done nothing wrong but,,,," After 22 years she did not even say goodbye to our daughter, just left.
So before I marry again, I will get rid of our old bed. I'll be with a new wife and have nothing around of the old wife. You know the irony of it? The ex said I would never amount to anything, money land, house like that. Turns out that her leaving was a blessing.
Now I'm multi millionaire, have land and houses in the tropics including beachfront. Now guess who wants to get back togather or at least a loan.
EX means past and gone, that's where you should leave an EX. They have no place in current marriage.
2006-11-25 07:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned your ex, IN BED! The poor bloke is probably wondering why you would be thinking of your ex at all, while your laid in bed with him.He probably doesnt want to risk you going back to your ex, even though you say you no longer love him,your new guy wont see it that way!
2006-11-25 07:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just never a good idea to mention ex's unless it becomes a topic for some reason. Put yourself in his shoes would you like it if he talked about his ex to you? Men get concerned when women talk about there ex's because personally I've dated women who never got over them and left me to go back to them the downside is they probably lose someone good only to be back in a relationship that will probably never work.
2006-11-25 07:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong Move, Male ego starts from his erection. The time he has ejaculated, he feels thats it was the best thing he did in the day/month or year. By taking the topic of some other male especially in the bed it hurts his manhood. Even if he would have loved you for life, you bloody messed it up too good. So just forget him now. You speak to male about such shits or deep shits when he has returned from toilet after **** where he does his most of the calculations (Money/Sex/Pleasure). Goodluck for next time on next bed. LOL.
2006-11-25 07:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by p4rk4r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a time and a place to mention ex's, in bed is not one of them. He should forgive you as there are worse things you could have done.
2006-11-25 07:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he will not forgive you, then learn from this, do not make the same mistake again, turn this page over in your life and move on.
Stop begging a man to accept you if he refuses to do so.
2006-11-25 23:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time ,Maybe he thought you still had feeling for him or you found him better in bed .Anyway I think he must forget and forgive you in a few days if he really loves you!
2006-11-25 07:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ever mention your ex ... the only way i could think of making it better is to tell the new guy that finally you found what you were missing before
2006-11-25 07:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by lot2talkabt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will forgive you - you just have to give him a bit of time to calm down. Send him an SMS again after a week or so.
One thing tho - you've learned not to do it again haven't you?
2006-11-25 07:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋