Is there anyone out there with a problem like mine?

Question

I have a problem with good choices.

For example, I spend all my money on stupid things such as the bars, or cocain, or just blow it on other people.

Im the type of person who will give all and not ask for anything. I always burn my self and i can't stop. There has even been times where i had 19 in my savings account and i put a fake deposit in the atm just so i can get money out of my back that i do not have.

I know i have a drug problem and booze problem and i have been working on it successfully. but i can't not do the right things and pay what i need to pay even tho i tryed.

I have a problem with good choices.

For example, I spend all my money on stupid things such as the bars, or cocain, or just blow it on other people.

Im the type of person who will give all and not ask for anything. I always burn my self and i can't stop. There has even been times where i had 19 in my savings account and i put a fake deposit in the atm just so i can get money out of my back that i do not have.

I know i have a drug problem and booze problem and i have been working on it successfully. but i can't not do the right things and pay what i need to pay even tho i tryed.


If you are going thought this problem or have been there and have and advice how to work pass it please fill me in.

Thank you for posting, But I do not beleive in a god. I am i darwin supporter. But i respect every answer you give me, and thank you for your support. But if there is anyone with out a God, or bible asnwer please post

Answer 1

It sounds like you may have a personality disorder. Go to your GP and try and get a referral to a mental health professional. I have similar problems to you- I make impulsive and 'bad' choices and I also burn myself, as well as other things, and I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. It is good that you can admit that you have a problem- this is the first step in healing. It's important that you seek help before your problem escalates.

Answer 2

Well all this God stuff is all just lovey dovey and warm and fuzzy and great in theory but sorry that wont help him!

What you need to do is get yourself into a program for the drugs and alcohol, a twelve step program which offers you support.

You also need to see a doctor and get checked out for bipolar, or personality disorders. There is a lot going on inside of you and God is great but you need some more concrete and immediate attention and help.
Good Luck and please do go for help your life can and probably will be so different and you wont be disliking yourself so much.

Answer 3

Sounds like you want to do right but don't know how to begin. Also you are a very giving person and you do it from the heart. Those are really good traits however, those other things you mentioned only God can help you with that. He loves you. He can take away all of those negative things and replace them with peace and joy unspeakable. He did it for me he'll do it for you. Your problem is just sin (to sum it up) that is why you have no power to stop doing what you don't want to do. God has to give us the power to do right but we cannot achieve it if we are out of his will or not saved. The devil does not love any of us God will help you if you would only consider your soul and get saved the bible way. Repent of all your sins if you are sorry for them God will see your sincerity and save you if you are honest. This is the answer to all of your problems JESUS. The scripture says in Matthew 1:21 And she shall bring forth a son, and thou shall call his name JESUS for he shall save his people from their sins( not in their sins, from their sins). If we sin we are not saved and we don't want to go to a devil's hell. Consider your soul God bless you!

Answer 4

I think your question should be: "Is there anyone out there WITHOUT a problem like mine?" Everybody struggles with making the right choices, doing dumb stupid things, regreting mistakes and sometimes succeeding and sometimes failing.

It is a universal trait of humans: We make mistakes, we do wrong things that result in trouble - trouble for ourselves or trouble for someone else. We all make bad decisions in life.

Maybe you have heard it before, maybe not, but the Bible talks all about this. It speaks about you - and me. We are sinners in great need of forgiveness, healing, help, wholeness. We need help and are so stupid and stubborn that we often refuse to get help from the source of all help - the Lord Jesus Christ.

I pray that you would consider what the Bible teaches, that you would realize that there is someone who can help - and His name is Jesus.

Please email me if you have questions!!

Answer 5

Self destruction is a more common problem than you think, but you've taken the first step to helping yourself by realizing that you indeed have a problem. Maybe counseling may help you gain the tools to put yourself in check.

Answer 6

Have you considered tearing your Atm card up? That would be the first step for me, I guess.

After that if you are really ready to commit and get help then move heaven and hell to do so. Have you considered an in-patient program?

Best of luck!

Answer 7

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http://sensitive-psychoworld.blogspot.com/

Answer 8

id say get to church fast.and talk to the preacher.you can talk to god anytime tho.if there is anyone with or without a bible write to a website called amazing grace it has really good christian stuff.

Answer 9

dude you hav a mantal problem i think
so you have to go for a psycheteric

Answer 10

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