god i dont know what to do. okay so i have been in love one time with the boy named michael, and he broke up with me because he needed to see if the door was closed with him and his ex, and that if they broke up that he would have realized that he made the biggest mistake ever. well i was really hurt at first, but i moved on [sorta] with this other boy who i really like. he is the first person i have felt comfortable with since michael. he makes me smile, and i dont know i cant explain it i just know he wouldnt hurt me. well last night michael and the girl he left me for broke up, and i am still going out with julio. and i dont know what to do because michael is all that i think about, but what if i break up with the new boy who is like perfect, and sweeter than anybody i know, and michael just breaks my heart again. please help, i dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my bf. but i dont know what to do about my feelings???
2006-11-24 22:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by mommy in january 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to starte off
he left you, He has lost his chanes with you
You need to stay with this other guys and if you are with out a guy and your ex is with out a girl then you can give it a go
but don't braek someones heart just to turn out to get yours hurt again
2006-11-24 22:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by yomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on God's green earth would you want to put yourself through what is bound to be another round of hell with a guy who chose another girl over you? He had a choice to be with you or his ex. He chose his ex - probably knowing that if things did go south with his ex you'd be there as the safety net. Did that feel good? Did him telling you he's leaving you for his ex make you want to dance for joy? I'm betting it didn't and NOW you want to do the EXACT SAME THING to poor Julio! For a guy you describe as perfect and sweet and kind that's a pretty fu*ked up way to treat them.
2006-11-24 23:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear girl, treat love like pickle not as food. You can take pickle along with the food but you cannot eat only pickle as food. So this crying about love seems very silly to me. Why don"t you concentrate on your job or studies and then think about marriage or this so called love?
2006-11-24 22:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by cindrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like juilo is your back up guy, and nobody likes to be the rebound guy.
If you even think you still have feelings for Micheal than you should be alone and until you know what you are feeling.
Poor Juilo, he is going to get hurt.
2006-11-24 22:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and the hell with Michael - he's already left you once, he'll leave you again and hurt you again. You have someone be thankful
2006-11-24 22:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old song, the lyrics of which say...
"If you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one you're with"
Sounds like good advice to me...
2006-11-24 23:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by bongfuel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve got julio. michael left you irresponsibly. stay with julio. or think about it deeply.
2006-11-24 23:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do the same mistake
2006-11-24 23:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋