you guys are the best, look, i'm breaking up, the story was i loved her, after a while i found out i cannot marry her or i don't want to (if this relation is going to somewhere, it will be marriage or breaking up), she wants to hear my reasons why i don't want serious commitment, my reasons are personal, like, i have future plans that forces me to stay single for many years, in another country, i don't want her to wait, by the way, i don't want to hurt her feelings, thats why i'm breaking up now.
the question is, what to tell her? i cannot mention the "i don't want u to wait" thing, because it sounds like "may be i'll change my mind".
and email me if it needs at alderas_tassadar@yahoo.com.
2006-11-24 22:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you want to remain single. You are not the type who can settle with a marriage. Tell her you may not be faithful to her so it is better to be friends.
2006-11-24 22:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just flat out tell her you don't want to be involved with her any more ,,,, You don't owe her an explanation ,,,, You don't owe anyone an explanation ,,,, If you are so stuck with these plans you say you have then go for it ,,,, People just have to live with it ,,,, but then if you don't have any time for women then stay away from them altogether and avoid this predicament in the future ,,,,
2006-11-25 07:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no other way it may sound like an old line but if she really loves you she will see the Truth in what you say and will go on with her life
I hope u guys end up friends
2006-11-25 06:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by yomom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, whatever you say to her other than "marry me" will hurt her feelings....you just need to let her down as gentle as possible, and be completely open and honest with her.
Best wishes!!
2006-11-25 06:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u do not have guts to say no to any one it is no use in loving or living
2006-11-25 06:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by cindrella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-25 06:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋