i was married for 14 years i am haveing problems getting back in to dateing i work overseas and there is not a lot of women over here.but this is my prob when i talk to women and think everything is looking good its always the same thing (your a nice guy but) i see guys treat women like crap and the women fall all over them i cant do that so what do ladys around my age want and how can i get them to give me a chanes. i am not looking for a love of my life just someone to spend time with and have fun with
2006-11-24 20:01:58 · 7 answers · asked by lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Work on your English spelling.
2006-11-24 20:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your language says it all, and i dont mean your grammar.
"but this is MY PROB when i talk to women and think everything is looking good its always the same thing (YOUR A NICE GUY but) i see guys treat women like crap and the women fall all over them I CANT DO THAT so what do ladys around my age want and how can i get them to GIVE ME chances."
You lack Nuts.
These women of today say they just want "honesty and respect" but these are not the ladies of the past.
Translation: They want a "hot" guy who has money. The honesty and respect stuff is a cover for (security), a kinda cocky guy with funds and who they can see themselves getting screwed by.
Go pickup Rolling Stones Neil Strauss' book "The Game".
There is much adolescent garbage but there is a lesson in the end if you dont mind reading these guys adventures.
seriously.
Good luck my friend.
2006-11-25 04:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what foreign land you are in, the women may not be interested in someone to "spend time with and have fun with".
If you are not in a place like that, say you are in Italy or somewhere more liberal about sex than the US or Asian countries you are not indicating to them that you are someone they could "spend time with and have fun with".
Sorry but the general reason men do not meet the kind of women they are looking for is because they are not meeting the kind of women they are looking for. There is no big secret to it.
Good Luck!!! (and I would trade a supermodel with endless cash for a nice guy, so go figure!)
2006-11-25 04:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem married 21 years don't want to get serious just have some to hang out with some times , We really don't like guys who treat us like crap. But we don't like to be smothered take your time. Don't come on to strong. We are out there.
2006-11-25 04:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by countrycloverat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the 4 kids that are scaring them away..lol. No seriously maybe you seem too eager. Just relax and have a good time and not think about the sex . It will happen if you just chill. And next time use spell check, that would be more impressive.
2006-11-25 04:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be yourself. The most important things I look for in a guy is honesty and respect.
2006-11-25 04:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by jrsygrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mature women find success a very attractive thing... just be really good at whatever you do.. Oh and driving a nice car is always a chic magnet...
2006-11-25 04:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋