Am i too ugly to date?

Question

i guess so .. why do men emphasize on looks?? rather den personality ? sometimes they say looks dont matter but it always turns out other wise..

what can i do to be attractive?

yes its a picture of me ..
i dont think my standards are that high at all

Answer 1

be more self-confident. if you believe in yourself and your self-worth guys will see that. :)

Answer 2

Truth is, personality matters on the long run and being physically attractive is just the "hook" to get them to notice you... unfortunately some men don't really take the time to get to know a girl. My suggestion is that you remain friendly, approachable, and confident, also have a sense of humor. Try to show people your talents or skills, if you can play some music, join a group, if you can do martial arts, join an exhibition.

If physically attractive is what you want, why don't you hang in the mall and get those make-overs, wear more flattering and up to date clothes.

Answer 3

You are not too ugly. No one is too ugly to date. There is that special somebody out there for everyone and you just haven't found that person yet. Also, you need to have confidence. Men really like that in a woman. Do whatever you do to get yourself in a good mood and just think positively. Some guys are shallow and emphasize too much on looks. You wouldn't wanna be with a guy like that anyway. Just keep your eyes open, be confident, and just like time do its thing.

Answer 4

It is all personal preferance my dear. I get the same prob with majority of guys but with some other guys it is all totally different. You will find someone who thinks you are spunky and you think the same about them trust me! I don't think you are ugly at all. No one is too ugly to date. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm guessing someone called you ugly? Or your jealous of this really hot chick who gets all the guys from school? Never mind we all get those feelings. Ummm I didn't see your body in the pic but if you are a bit flabby do some toning up exercises. Ummm If you aren't happy with your hair get it styled at the hairdresses like layer it or something. Straighten it all the time and keep moisture in it too. And emphasise your best feature with make up that's wat I do. For me I have big lips so I put a bright spunking red colour on it. Eat a lot of fruit to keep your skin looking healthy. Water will work too! Fresh air for some unknown reason makes you more attractive too! And because you even asked this question I KNOW you have bad self confidence and so do I chickee! I would just look at your talent and embrace it and know you are absolutely fantastic! For me mine is singing. Don't worry about wat others say. Be confident in yourself. Think positive no matter how hard it is and how much you really don't want to. Guys love confident chicks. Moisturise your skin, and wear push up bras (emphasise of the boobs!)Good luck princess things will all work out and you'll find someone treating you like a princess too! xxxxxxxxx

Answer 5

Is that a picture of you? If it is then your not ugly at all. Men who are not shallow will find you attractive if you have a great personality. Work on your self confidence and dont put down yourself too much.

Answer 6

You can choose to believe me or not, but I believe I am right. God, when He made man, made them as creatures of sight. Men are always saying that "she" looks "hot" or "pretty." On the other hand, he made women more creatures of feeling. Girls are always saying how something makes one feel and are more concerned with the emotion involved in things.

What can you do to be more attractive? - If I were you, I would honestly "be myself". If you have to go "overboard" or past what you would judge as right to impress a guy, you will find the wrong guy, but if you just be yourself and stand by your opinions, one day, the "right" guy will find you. And in the long run, if you do this, you will become more attractive on the inside. ~ i know, sounds like lots of "mumble jumble" , but if you want to know what i think...

Answer 7

Looks are the first impression. After that, its all personality, at least to me. Depends how superficial and shallow the man is. You can make yourself "More attractive" to men by being the oneion who initiates the conversation, cuz we are only going to initiate it if we think your a hottie. From theere on, they see your personality and not your looks. Hope this helped!
Sincerely,
Zachary Strass

Answer 8

hun u look just fine , if thats ur pic u dont need no do anything cuz u really look good , u just need to be confident of urself , low-self esteem and make u major problems and that would definitly effect ur appareance , go out feel pretty and u ve to say it to urself more often , and maybe if u could listen to cristians song , u would know what i mean, god bless and good luck .

Answer 9

Honey, NO ONE is too ugly to date, believe me!! Be yourself, and someone will love you for who you are. Women who get men based on their looks usually go through a long string of boyfriends before they realize what they're doing wrong.

Good luck to you.

Answer 10

ur not ugly! the thing is that u gotta think possetiely everytime and be yoursef. there will come a time when someone will love you for who u are.....
but if u into gettin beauty, just grow some titties and put on some makeups, and make ya a$$ look fat and curven your body!!
just kiddin! lol

Answer 11

There's definitely no such thing as "too ugly to date". I don't even think you're ugly. You can definitely get someone. It might be your personality or you might have high standards.