i am a girl.
18 years old
i am cultured, have alot of hobbies but i have difficulty in impressing people.
2006-11-24 19:38:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you can't "MAKE" someone love you..
it just happens and that time and person will come along when it's meant to happen, your only 18 you have plenty of time to find love.
As for the impressing people and you want people to like you: just be YOURSELF, don't try to act the way people want you to act because it's not you and most can pick up on false impressions.
You say your cultured and have a lot of hobbies, try getting to know people who have the same hobbies as you do, just relate to them on that level, don't try to sound like you do something better than someone else or that your better than someone else no matter the situation.
Bottom line, be yourself and that's enough.. just don't flaunt the ego or be conseeded about it.. and you'll be fine. And remember love comes when it comes, you can't make someone love you.. just like someone can't make you love them or love brussel sprouts.. think about it..
It's all in the presentation of how your representing yourself to people and in certain situations.
Good Luck.
2006-11-24 19:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by carebearashee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find the answer to that one tell God he is still looking for it.
Just be yourself and someone will love you. Actually someone probably already does perhaps several but you are ignoring them or spending too much time trying to impress instead of watching and listening.
Don't feel bad all 18 year old's both boys and girls do the same thing. Just relax and have fun and the guys will beat a path to your doorstep.
2006-11-24 20:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bullfrog21 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow.....how i wish I had the answer to this one!!!!
You sound like a reallllly nice person. Just be yourself.and love the person you are. The confidence you'll exude about yourself will be very, very attractive. Think about the sort of person you'd like to meet/date/love. Common interests would be nice so perhaps look for someone to talk to at a place you enjoy visiting. Perhaps an art gallery or other 'cultural' venue. Perhaps one of your hobbies has a group of like minded people who meet?
You say you have difficulty impressing people. You don't have to be the life and soul of the party to be impressive............all kinds of different personal qualities are impressive to different people. Just be yourself, be confident and be happy........... someone out there just has to LOVE that!!!!
Good luck. Libbi x :-)
2006-11-24 19:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by wretchedbint 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You CAN'T make someone love you! Don't work on impressing people, just be yourself. When you work too hard at pleasing or impressing people, you WILL attract the wrong ones. Anytime you have to be someone else your not, just to impress or attract anyone...It becomes a turn off!
2006-11-24 19:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by wherenai 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're going to hate this, but don't sweat it, you've got the world a head of you - I'm 25 and remember when I was 18, shy, always wanting to impress people, and would do almost anything to make someone else happy - let it go. Relax, think slow, move slow, and enjoy your time.
Find something that pleases YOU, enjoy doing that thing, excel at it, and feel accomplished.
2006-11-24 19:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, you shouldn't feel the need to "impress" people. second of all, reality check. do you try so hard to be someone else that you are not you? people know when someone is trying to be someone else bc they just send a bad vibe... make friends, smile, dont be afraid to take a chance. who cares about what they think? be proud of who you are and have a nice smile on your face. besides smiles are good for your body! good luck! :D
2006-11-24 19:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can never force someone to love you. Love just comes naturally. Tour still young. Love will come at the right time.
2006-11-24 19:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Meeya 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nobody can "make" ANYONE else love. Have you ever heard the saying "learn to love yourself and others will too"? You need to be comfortable with yourself to allow others to like you. If you like yourself as you are, that will come across and you will naturally magnetic.
2006-11-24 19:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dear, ur fate is not yet arriving... Meanwhile try to mix as much of friends & know more people.( enjoy ur life now) Love dont really last (BGR), but just a short period of honeymood. U do have ur family & peers love, isnt it enough? BGR not that important la.
2006-11-24 19:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
firstly you can't 'make' anyone love you,
and don't worry about impressing them you don't need to impress someone who really loves you.
Sounds like your trying to hard just be yourself and expose yourself to guys you want to be around.
2006-11-24 19:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋