When your girlfriend ( a 2 girl relationship) is to shy to make the first move, how do you encourage her to do so and that it will be welcome?
2006-11-24 19:26:34 · 17 answers · asked by fivals_friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grab her chin and lightly kiss her
2006-11-24 19:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... first of all, you shouldn't pressure her. second of all, why does she has to be the one who makes the first move? i mean, if you are sitting around waiting for her to kiss you, you might as well hope for a pig to climb trees..
try to talk to her about how she feels... if she is ready and what are her worries. don't "encourage" her bc thats peer pressure. explain to her the good and bad. (what might leads to after the kissing...) respect her and let her be the one to decide. let her know that she should feel comfortable be4 she does anything, this way she will feel more comfortable and might be easier for her to make the first move. good luck
2006-11-25 03:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god a shy girl would NEVER initiate the kiss if u want her to kiss you, you have to start theres no other way. depends on whether she really likes you or not as well as how comfortable she is wiht the idea and if not then dont be surprised if she pulled herself away..
2006-11-25 03:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got 2 make the first move
2006-11-25 03:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by Fusion, gangster man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your gonna have to make the first move.Iwas the same way shy.My boyfriend had to just go for it .I got used to kissing him after a couple of times.
2006-11-25 03:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 2 girl relationship??? just start off slowly, give her a lil peck at the end of the night,,, dont just ram your tounge down her throt (obviously), she probably wants u to make the first move and is wondering why u arent
2006-11-25 03:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by sara c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is too shy to make the move, you'll have to initiate the move
2006-11-25 03:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by mikee5432 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear when a girl shy after kissing think that she get wet and she get great enjoyment in kissing so he take a shy
2006-11-25 03:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by smohdarshi2006 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A couple glasses of red wine to relax, candlelights, soft small talk, music.
2006-11-25 03:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is too shy to make the first move, then you do it.
2006-11-25 03:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just let it happen when it happens. Don't push it, because if you do she might lose respect for you as well as herself. Just let it come as it comes, and when it does happen it will be the most passionate you could imagine.
2006-11-25 03:29:07 · answer #11 · answered by Mango Monkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋