If you are in a relationship and things hit a bad spot and you break up do you think that somewhere down the road after you have both gathered yourself that you can make it work? This is given its was a great relationship that you both just felt like at that moment thats what you needed to do. Can you make it work after that?
2006-11-24 19:07:23 · 3 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are friendships, and as friends take time apart for self, couples need to as well. Communication to honestly agree that you both are willing to work, "Yes, work" to balance the relationship and set in place an agreement of trust, honesty, and boundaries (acceptable behavior). Basically Ground rules, or an agreement that you are both willing to live up to and abide by.
Done Fairly, with accountability, you will have the basis for a relationship, but only if you both can be honestly able to live up to the agreement and find forgiveness for each other.
A relationship or marriage councelor could help with the accountability and finding a fair agreement.
The thing is relationships change, they don't stay in constant bliss forever. Sooner or later real life gets in the mix and we may expect perfect bliss like the beginning, but this is impossible as life happens and we have to deal with it. How we deal with it determines how much bliss we shall find. Calm polite communication and a willingness to do this together, will go a long way toward making it work. It won't be the same, but it can be better, if you both work to make it that way.
2006-11-24 20:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bob L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how the break up went down/how messy it was and how committed the two of you are to it and trying to change yourselves to make it work right the next time around. Honestly, just about every person I know (my age anyways) who is married broke up with their gf/bf along the way. It's all about staying positive and staying committed. Sure, it happens, probably more times than you think. Good luck and stay calm.
2006-11-25 03:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of it depends on what that "bad spot" is. How did it come about? What were the circumstances? Then it all comes down to how you feel. Is there a connection? Or is it simply an infatuation? If there is a connection or bond there then you have a chance and it is worth the effort to try.
2006-11-25 03:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by white_knight_61611 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋