what do u think?

Question

is it a bad idea for me and my bf (3 year relationship), to move into an apartment together???

Answer 1

If you both feel like the time is right,do it.

Answer 2

If you'd like to marry him, its not a good idea. Most, if not all relationship experts do not endorse the idea.

Its kinda like the saying goes "why buy the milk when you can get the cow for free"

You might want to read up on co-habiting....

I was into a 4 year relationship when I moved in with my BF. I thought it would help better the communicaiton and understanding. I read "idiots guide to living together" AFTER I moved in, now that was idiotic!

Here is the book I'm talking about: http://www.amazon.com/Complete-Idiots-Guide-Living-Together/dp/0028639286/sr=1-1/qid=1164441913/ref=sr_1_1/103-5215434-3502203?ie=UTF8&s=books

It makes you think of things you may have not thought of.

here is a website: there is a section for reasons not to live together....http://members.aol.com/cohabiting

Just as people who get married, don't want to think about divorce. You have to think about if you break up.... it makes is sooo much harder!

BTW, I lived with him for 3 years and then I bought a house and moved out a year ago... I'm still with him ...8 years later.

Answer 3

Is not bad or good depends on how u look at it ...

moving in together can give u a chance to see each other real habits and see if u can adapt them if u guys are really married in future and also learn what is like living together n not being married !

To me i feel that is good .to test out the relationship before u get married .

But before u live in together ...draw out a chart n stick it on the wall .....who pay the bills who do the dishes, laundry,ironing,cleaning etc.. it takes a lot of work staying together ..

so u need to consider real carefully .....


good luck !

Answer 4

ITs called Marrying stop Sining

Answer 5

Yes if you ever think your going to get married...It doesn't work 99% of the time...

Answer 6

nope