so im 16 and my closest friends (theyre 15 and 16) always tease me about how i dont have a bf yet. they both always hit on guys and say how theyre so hot and say how they LOVE one of them then get heartbroken when they find out the guy didnt like them back or even knew they existed or has a girlfriend. right now im more focused on my school and i feel like i got more important things to do right now? dont get me wrong i like guys and ive had crushes and have really close guy friends that say they like me and wanna go out and stuff like that and i have. my question is, should i try to be MORE focused on the whole "guy thing" at my age and go out on dates more? my girl-friends always ask me "who do you like" or "he was hot huh" and i feel uncomfortble now cuz they always set me up with guys or pressure me to LIKE someone n i just dont feel like i should be forced to have crush ALL THE TIME. plz gimme a honest piece of advice.
2006-11-24 18:41:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be all "i don't wanna get tied down to one guy right now... right now i just want to see what all is out there and have some fun with all kinds of different personalities." and don't let them get to you and embarrass you, or else they will do it more for the reaction.
2006-11-24 18:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms. you are on the right path, put your education first, the boys will always be here, plus when you don't focus on them and you focus on your books you get to see the mistakes your friends are having with boys so you can learn from their mistakes also. It's ok to consider someone cute, it's human, but no you don't have to drool all over them or make each one of them your b/f. You seem like a young lady with her head in the right direction. At 15/16 boys don't even acknowledge girlfriends most of the time, they are usually out for ONE thing and once they got that they are on to the next girl who thinks they are cute... So stay focused on your future and guaranteed that if your friends continue to make a big deal out of boys, they'll end up another statistic (single-parent, teenage mom....) Just do what you do and don't let them pressure you, You pressure them to get focused on school and if they are not with that program you need to get different friends that are on positive things and not negative things. Hope this helped, Good luck, this is the same advise I give my 14yr old.
2006-11-25 02:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by mskash 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your about 6 or 8 years more mature than your friends. Which is not a bad thing. Basicaly it just means your natured diferently. Im not saying to change friends. This is just something you may have to deal with for a little while......
2006-11-25 02:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by telecaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't worry about guys. I mean really, your friends give you all the reasons of why not to waste your time with them. I wish I was more focused on my studies as you.
2006-11-25 02:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by pink_kitties_and_rhinoplasty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep your mind on you studies and the right guy will come along when the time is right.
2006-11-25 02:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by marilee w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are young and sound like u have your head on right and tight. study study study study study boys will never be out of your life. they are beautiful.
2006-11-25 02:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by dounut 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you be brief..who's got time to read all this.seek suggestions from friends thru messenger or be brief next time around
2006-11-25 02:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋