My grandmother is back home, and I live in Canada with my mom....but my grandmother is very sick, she has heart problems ;( ....and I have cousins there and aunts, but they can't always visit her, and I dare to say that she cares more for me than my other cousins.......I lived some of my childhood years with her....and she's 76 years old, she gets very sad and like I said she's very sick!
My mom wants me to go live with her for some time, to take care of her, but I really don't want to leave my mom alone, I'll be worried, and I will feel terrible about my grandmother.....as much as I DON"T want anything to happen to her, that is not possible, anything could happen with her being sick and all....I just don't know what to do, I had planned to start school next september, and my mom tells me I could study back home....but I feel so confused, if something happens to my grandmother I'll feel terrible you know? What would you guys do in my place? Only serious answers please!!
2006-11-24 18:33:37 · 6 answers · asked by hey_amt95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel so bad....my grandmother CAN'T Travel cause of her heart condition...Her heart gets swollen and she gets tired quick, even when she eats she gets tired..She's very sick :( ....Like I said she has other family there, and they visit her and all, but she still gets depressed.....sad :S
2006-11-24 18:38:03 · update #1
Somehow move her in with you and your mom.If not possible,you have to move in with your grandma.Right now she really needs someone.If you don't do it now,later when she is gone,you'll feel guilty for a long time.Poor thing,help her.
2006-11-24 19:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's right, rip at my heartstrings, YOU!
I am familiar with this type of situation and I am sad for
you because your mother has no right to put the burden
on you. I can sense that you are not emotionally ready
to handle this type of situation on your own. Any mother in
her right mind would take care of the matter herself with you
there as her support, not the other way around.
I feel for you but it's not your fault your Grandmother is sick
and she certainly isn't your responsibility to care for all alone.
Just because your mother trusts that you are a mature person,
doesn't meant she can pass on responsibility, especially if your
mother is your Grandmother's daughter. Your Mom put you on
the spot and if I were you, I'd hand back the responsibility even
if it upsets her. I really hopes this helps you. Good-Luck.
2006-11-25 03:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Van T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there any wya your grandma can come move wid you and your mum.?
maybe you should be with your grandma for a bit at least she is sick and needs some help. it will cheer her up and make her feel better.
talk it ove rlong and hard with your mum and make sure you really want to do this. but remember your grandma also needs you so try and be there for her
2006-11-25 02:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of your grandmother. SOME day she will begone.
2006-11-25 02:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with your grandmother she won't be around forever and she needs you.
2006-11-25 02:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy. u sound stressed, dont be, just let life live
2006-11-25 02:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by jared l 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋