how can i get my mind off of the man i love? HELP PLEASE!!!?

Question

i love him but his leaving and i know if i don't get him off of my mind it will be hard for me to let him go. even when i just talk to him it hurts because i know i cant see him and we will only talk for a minute. i know someone out there can help me with my problem.
HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Usually if you cannot get someone out of your head its cause they are meant to be there. I am going through the same thing currently. All you can really do is take it a day at a time and stay true to your heart and hold onto faith.
-NmD!

Answer 2

I couldn't quite figure out if he's leaving for good or just for some significant period of time by reading your question. Either way, time heals all wounds. Having be dumped a few times, I felt horrible at first. I was depressed. Weeping. I thought that I would never recover. Then I began to go about my day and I thought about my ex who ripped my heart out less and less. One day, I didn't think about her at all.

I've had a few long distance relationships, too. Here is how they work. In the first few weeks if you are really crazed about it as I was, you write a letter every day (despite the fact that you are in graduate school and don't have time). You phone them every day as well as write them a letter. The letters are really long, too. Several pages. As time goes on, opps, you forgot a phone call. Oh, but you'll call the next day. And the letters get shorter and shorter as more pressing concerns fill your mind. I'm not being cynical and am suggesting that I fell out of love. I married one of these girls and I'm still married to her.

The thing is that your mind won't let you continue to think about the person forever. You have other things you have to do.

Here is what I do to take my mind off of a girl or other pressing concern. Watch TV. Go out to dinner. Have a conversation with a friend or new friends. Go out to a movie. Play a game. Play sports. (And dare I say it.) Answer questions on Yahoo! Answers. Just get out and do something. Force your mind onto another topic. You can always go back and think about your man (or not think about him) later. Good luck.

Answer 3

is he moving away for good or for just a while? tere's no way you can get him out of your mind if you love him its practically impossible so i suggest that u spend as much tyme with him right now as u can so that u can have memories to hold on to.
do you trust him in the sense that u believe he wont 4 get about u?if he's going long distance its better to talk to him even for a minute rather than not talking to him at all. dnt think about the present so much think about what the 2 of you can do before he leaves that way even though he will be out of sight,he wont be out of mind

Answer 4

first off think of all the bad things that ever happened between you two. do extra work to keep you busy. the more you focus on something else the less you think of him. try hanging out with people you haven't gotten the chance to spend time with. do things you've always wanted to do, but couldn't because he was holding you back. do something for yourself. you'll heal in time.
and just maybe he'll comeback see you as a new person and you guys fall in love again.

always look into the future. you'll never know unless you give it a try.

Answer 5

When you love someone it will be hard to get him off your mind. You have to put yourself first sometimes and think of how you feel about yourself. What makes you tick, do hobbies or activities you use to do before he came along. Hang out with you friends. Keep busy doing something , it will take your mind off of things.

Answer 6

Sadly I have no answer to this. But I know what you are going through and it sucks. Feel free to email or im me if you need someone to talk to [e-mail]

Answer 7

If you sure that he is not loyal to you, what is the point of bearing this pain in chest. Sack him before you are sacked and look for a new prince of charm you figure will bosom you.

Answer 8

easily.....there are situations at the same time as my ideas wanders throughout kinfolk with my hubby....yet for some reason it wanders in route of random such issues as paying expenditures or remembering to ascertain a mag article.....i imagine i favor to drink extra!

Answer 9

start going out and doing something fill up your free time with something constuctive.set him free if it was meant to be he will come back to thee.but dwelling on it is not going to help you. if it gets really bad consult professional help.

Answer 10

let him go because u have to exept the fact that its not working out and go find another man!!