What scares a woman about a man?

Question

Me and my female co-work were chatting one day.. Not sure how the subject got started however she told me that if we didnt know each other should would be friad to run into a person like me in a dark alley..... I'M not sure how to take that? What scares a woman?

Answer 1

Sometimes women are afraid of men who are strong or rough around the edges. This is a stereotype and something someone does when they jump to the wrong conclusions. I think she is really rude! I can't imagine saying that to someone. She definitely judges a book by it's cover and that in itself is scary!

Some women are afraid of being abused or even taken advantage of by a man who is strong. Sometimes this is due to abuse or rape or some sort of exposure to these things. Post traumatic stress syndrome can come into play. or they may have been really sheltered in life instead of having a chance to get to know people of all different types.

If a man is very overbearing it can scare a woman as well. I think a lot of women are afraid of being controlled by a man. Part of that is do to the messages our media sends us. I think in an effort to educate women about the potential for abuse and what to do if you are in that situation it can make many women Leary of men. As well as all the stories of rape, date rape, stranger danger, etc.

There is a fine balance between being cautious and protecting yourself from possible dangers and allowing the possibility of danger to control how you act or behave towards people. Especially when you first encounter someone new.

Answer 2

mmm....I've been attacked before and now I'm aware that it can be daylight in a nice neighborhood and still be attacked by a single man on the street. it doesn't take much for me to be scared however i run like about 8 miles a week so I'll kick the **** out of some nuts! Being scared you have to learn to control that towards your anger to defend yourself. It's so easy to be scared to the point of catatonics; it's literally like a dream and your voice will not further leave your throat, heart pounding so hard it hurts, adrenalin pumping so hard you can't breath. Sure it's easy to say I'll effen kick that dudes a** if he brakes in my home however you never know until your in that situation!

Answer 3

from your picture seems like a big, tough, muscular guy...n added with a serious face...wow. a little intimidating in a dark alley, especially if the girl was walking alone and the guy had some bad intentions. but i wouldnt take it seriously its probably just her way of showing how much she admires your physique.

Answer 4

Looks, controlling guys, and for some women, love in general. Afraid of getting hurt.

Answer 5

well if youre like a buff 10 ft giant thatd scare me too.
wouldn't wanna be meeting you in a dark alley!

Answer 6

what scares a women the most is that she will never be able to live up to the wild man s heart...the adventure isn t her it is with her and she needs to know that

Answer 7

you look like a really strong guy, i am scared of guys that are over powering, hold me very tight and won't ease up, most of all i am scared of getting my heart broken again.

Answer 8

maybe its because your full of yourself. not to make assumptions, but you name is flexizme and your pictures kinda show it. maybe you should lay off what your body looks like and not flaunt it as much. people can see your a pretty big guy, but people dont need to hear it to

Answer 9

A guy that is creepy, overly-jealous, too clingy, starey-eyed (stares a lot), possessive, control freak, shy in a way it is creepy..etc.

Answer 10

A man who wears all black scares the f**k out of me.