If you ask a girl out whom you've known for a long time and she happens to turn you down for whaterver the reason might be. So, my question is what do you do the next you see her?
2006-11-24 17:47:48 · 10 answers · asked by ILGAndS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. Don't show off or try to make them jealous - that's for little kids. They have every right not to be interested in you, you tried and that's all you can do. Don't let rejection alter who you are.
2006-11-24 17:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by theswedishfish710 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you behave as you will behave with any friend or colleague (whatever she happens to be) other than her. Absolutely normal. Even if you are hurting or it has taken you down a notch or two on the ego scale, she doesnt need to know that. It will only make her feel guilty (if she is the soft types), or smug (if she is arrogant types) or irritated (if she is normal). And you dont want any of that. So just be normal, after all it was not the end of the world, you are still alive and kicking :-)
2006-11-24 17:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by huma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly and relaxed. She is not going to have the oppertunity to turn you down again unless she gives you a different signal. Maybe she is a natural friend, if there is such a thing. It is, however, worth the effort.
2006-11-24 17:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you dont know her...maybe smile mildly BUT be yourself and pay NO attention to her. just walk past without looking and be calm, content and confident. that way you might even get her interested ;) if her friends or your friends make a comment on how you got turned down, just shrug it off and say 'yea i asked her out so what?' please TRY NOT to blush or look uncomfortable because it'll make things worse. good luck!
2006-11-24 17:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by lorivs89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act cool like nothing is wrong or eating at you .. walk in there shoulders back and do your own thing. if you see her be cool say hi how ya doing smile and then carry on your way.
2006-11-24 17:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you act like nothing happened. and if you feel weird or if she feels weird about it talk it through. talk about it and put it behind you. you dont wanna grab some other chicka and just start kissing them, you'll look like a playah. you dont want that.
2006-11-24 17:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab the nearest person next to you and start kissing them like crazy so theyll know what they missed out on.
2006-11-24 17:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like everything's okay. because if you don't. it'll make the other person feel horrible or awkward around you and it'll RUIN your friendship.
just act like you're okay with it. =) it works.
2006-11-24 17:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by yourhelpishere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO WHATEVER ALL THESE PEOPLE SAY BUT NEVER ASK HER AGAIN ...IF U WAANNA MAKE IT SUCH THAT SHE ASKS CAUSE NOW SHE KNOWS WHAT U WANT EVERY TIME U MEET MAKE HER FEEL WHAT SHE HAS MISSED..........
2006-11-24 17:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Aman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly with her, and if you think the time is right, ask her out again........If she says no again, then you know that you were never meant to be lovers, just friends.........Take care, dear........
2006-11-24 17:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋